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Question: Important!.!.!. serious q!?
Why is it that I dont get any pleasure from sex!? it doesnt hurt or anything it just doesnt do anything for me, I dont get aroused easily and have never had an orgasm from vaginal sex!? I am kinda put off by it, but everyone else i know loves it!. I have been sexually active for 5 years and this has been the same the whole time!.!.!. please help it is affecting my relationshipWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Ideally, sex should be enjoyed by both parties!. It is always a great feeling to know that both the man and woman have enjoyed the sexual encounter!.

Unfortunately, certain male and female sexual dysfunctions prevent a couple from experiencing sex as it is meant to be experienced!. The saddest thing that a woman could ask herself is what does a female orgasm feel like!? This only proves that she has not been sexually satisfied!.

To be deprived of such an experience can certainly be disappointing on the part of the woman, and to deprive a woman of such can be the ultimate frustration of any man!.

For a man, it is important to know what does a female orgasm feel like, because this will serve as a guide for him to see if he has done all the right things to keep his woman sexually satisfied and begging for more!.

Obviously, you never ask a woman point blank, "what does a female orgasm feel like!?" Now that can be totally insulting! Instead, you only have to watch for the following signs!.

The woman may cry after reaching orgasm!. Crying indicates that a woman is so happy she can't help getting all emotional!. A woman, too, may fall asleep or her legs may feel wobbly after an orgasmic experience!.

Another sure sign that she can't get over the experience is when she hugs you close, or if she can't stop sharing with you her thoughts and feelings about your sexual encounter!.

Lastly, if she smiles rather mysteriously, it is definite that she has thoroughly enjoyed the sexual experience!. Actions speak louder than words, so make no mistake of asking your partner "what does a female orgasm feel like!?"

You should read more articles about sexual information at this site to help you increase your sexual libio : http://health-sex-money!.com/SexualInform!.!.!.
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You need to climax hun! You should masturbate to see what turns you on and what your body likes!. When you have sex get into a position where he or you can use your fingers or a vibrator to stimulate your clitoris!. My favorite is the man lying on his side and you on your back perpendicular to him, like this |-- Then you can pleasure yourself during intercourse!. Or him taking you from behind while you're both on your sides!. Don't worry, a very very small amount of women climax from vaginal penetration alone, most need clitoral stimulation too! Talk to your partner, I'm sure he'll love to help!

Alternatively, you could talk to a sexually counselor!. Maybe something is subconsciously not allowing you to enjoy sex!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You say you're "kinda put off by it"!. Why is that!? What makes you say that!?!? Do you say "no" to more things/activities than "yes" in the sexual arena!? Whats your attitude about most things sexual and where do you think that comes from!? I don't know how close you are to marriage but one thing to keep not far from your mind is that men place a high emphasis on sex especially within marriage!. This doesn't mean they want it every day but its implied that its present in at best sufficient quantities and quality!. This is not a new revelation here to be sure!. If you're put off by it now, once you are married and then with children, you could be at risk for a divorce since the urge generally will wane with marriage and children in women!. Some men too!. Im just looking ahead here because Ive lived it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Ehhh, im in the same boat!. Sex is fun and all because it's with the person I love!. But I get absolutely no sexual pleasure from it, if anything i'ts painful at times!. It sucks but I can't do anything about it!. I can only orgasm if I stimulate my clitoris myself, but even then it's difficult to do!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

Try this and see if you like it, it will help you know the feeling, and learn to know your body, and will help you getting your orgasms during loveplay:
Make yourself very very comfortable, take a hot bath or something, then go to your bed, or other nice place!. Start massaging yourself, stimulate your clit!. you can already reach an orgasm this way!. If you want to, please do, after that, insert your finger, and inside your vagina, curl it upwards, so that the top of your finger pushed upwards in your belly!. Feel around a bit there, and you will find your g-spot!. Stimulate this spot until you feel like you have to pee!. Never mind that feeling, and just continue!. The orgasm you will reach then (especially if it is your second), will be much intenser, and can even cause you to ejaculate!. If you want to go even further, then use the moist from your vagina, and stroke the small place between your vagina and anus (perineum)!. If you dare trying this, most women enjoy this really alot, once they put aside their fears for it: stroke your wet finger around your anus, going more and more towards the middle!. Then, when you feel like it is the right time, gently push it in!. Very gently, very slowly, very carefully!. If you feel like it, you can combine it with vaginal or clitoral stimulation for extreme pleasure!.
You should try to get past the peeing feeling!. I know you are afraid, and are holding it all up, because you do not want to pee at that time!. But you should just relax, go with the flow, totally relax, and play!. Then, you will come, and ejaculate!. It will perhaps even feel like peeing, and fluids will come, but it is not pee, I promise you! And most of all, you will have had an orgams that you will never again forget!.!.!.
I noticed btw that ejaculation orgasms are seldom the first, first is a normal orgasm, then slow down a bit, but do not stop, and gradually increase stimulation, then you will reach a "higher" orgasm!.
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