No feeling during sex?!


Question: No feeling during sex!?
ive been sexually active with my partner for 2 years now, and in that time, i have never, ever had a orgasm from penitrive sex, i can orgasm from other ways, clitiros rubbing etc, but inside, nothing works!. i have no feeling at all inside, it just feels dead, i do get wet, but theres just no excitement, its not painfull, but as u can imagine, its really putting me down!. me and my boyfriend have tried everything, all kinds of sex toys, diffrent times of the day, having sex in diffrent places, making it exciteing, but nothing :( i love him more than life itself, and its certainly not because hes bad in bed or anything!. its really putting a strain on our relationship, it must be hard for him knowing he couldent satisfy me from simple sex and its really worrying me!. could there be somthing the matter with me!? could this affect me having chirldren in the future!?
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Answers:
Sweeeetiee! Relax honey, only 30% of woman actually climax through penetration, the others are through clitoral stimulation!. It's a male invention that ALL women climax through penetrative sex (I'm not a raving feminist, but I've been studying the literature into things like this)!.

It simply depends on where your nerve endings ended up being the most sensitive!. My husband knows i can't come through sex itself and he was surprised too, until I read into the area!.

So please don't worry!. You're absolutely fine!. Of course you can have kids (as long as everything else works fine - you can get that checked out by the Dr!. when you start planning for kids - it's called a pre-pregnancy check up)!. You can encourage him to pleasure you in the way that works for you, and you can enjoy the feeling of him penetrating you, and you can pleasure him - so you can still have totally satisfying, mind-blowing, earth shattering, earth-moving sex! :-)

And don't you dare let it get you down! You've got a gorgeous partner you adore (many women spend their lives looking for that and never find it), you have a great sex life and you have the potential for being happy ever after with this man!. Something to celebrate and feel good about, surely!?

Big hugs to you :-)Www@Answer-Health@Com

I can't feel my husband inside me either!. or sextoys etc!. when i had my son 18 yrs ago the midwife asked me if i could feel the contractions that were showing on the monitor that they had attached to my baby!. i couldn't & she was amazed!. apparently i should have been climbing the walls!. I have a back injury from childhood and it is now taking over my life!.I'm 38 & can hardly walk!. have you hurt yourself and maybe forgotten or thought it wasn't that bad at the time!. Have a think & get it checked out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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