Is Heavy bleeding normal after having sex for a few times?!
Question: Is Heavy bleeding normal after having sex for a few times!?
Me and my boyfriend of 3+ years just started having sex about a month and a half ago!. We decided that we were ready and all that jazz!.
Anyway, the first time was painful, awkward, and not at all a pleasure!. We've since done it like maybe seven or eight times and it's been really hard for us to enjoy it because it hurts me so much!. both of us were virgins when we did it together and neither of us had "been" with anyone else so we're both clean!. (as far as we know anyway, we should be right!?) We've usually taken it slow and I'm usually on top because I have control over how much I can take!. But more times than not, it keeps hurting me!. But today, we went to do it and I was laying on my back and we were lubricated and everything and he went in but It hurt REALLY bad! but I told him to keep going but to go slow!. He moved slowly but I eventually had him stop because it hurt so bad!. Anyway I went to the bathroom shortly thereafter and there was blood!. But alot of it! I thought I had started my period but realized I'm not supposed to start for another eleven or twelve days but I put a tampon in anyway because it was so heavy!. My vaginal opening was really sore to the touch and it was hard to put in the tampon at first but I finally got it in!. Anyway its been a few hours since I put the tampon in and I just went into the bathroom to get a new one, but there wasn't ANY blood on the tampon except for some really dark blood!. I'm scared because I don't know what this means, I don't know if my "cherry" finally popped, or if my hymen broke, or if he "tore" my vaginal opening or what! Please help me Because I just don't know whats up!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Anyway, the first time was painful, awkward, and not at all a pleasure!. We've since done it like maybe seven or eight times and it's been really hard for us to enjoy it because it hurts me so much!. both of us were virgins when we did it together and neither of us had "been" with anyone else so we're both clean!. (as far as we know anyway, we should be right!?) We've usually taken it slow and I'm usually on top because I have control over how much I can take!. But more times than not, it keeps hurting me!. But today, we went to do it and I was laying on my back and we were lubricated and everything and he went in but It hurt REALLY bad! but I told him to keep going but to go slow!. He moved slowly but I eventually had him stop because it hurt so bad!. Anyway I went to the bathroom shortly thereafter and there was blood!. But alot of it! I thought I had started my period but realized I'm not supposed to start for another eleven or twelve days but I put a tampon in anyway because it was so heavy!. My vaginal opening was really sore to the touch and it was hard to put in the tampon at first but I finally got it in!. Anyway its been a few hours since I put the tampon in and I just went into the bathroom to get a new one, but there wasn't ANY blood on the tampon except for some really dark blood!. I'm scared because I don't know what this means, I don't know if my "cherry" finally popped, or if my hymen broke, or if he "tore" my vaginal opening or what! Please help me Because I just don't know whats up!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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ok!.!.!.look!.!.this is what personally worked for me!.!.cos that happened to me too!.!.and still happens the odd time if i havent had sex for a while and dont take it easy!.!.
it could be hurting so much because the 2 of u (especially you) are not relaxed completely!.!.try having a nice warm bath before hand to chill out!.then just take things very easy!.!.have lots and lots of foreplay!.!.as much as you can!.!.staying as relaxed as you can because when ur nervous your muscles tense and it will be harder to get in!.!.therefor sorer!.!.anyway!.!.!.LOTS AND LOTS of foreplay!.!.you have to widen out (sorry if TMI)!.!.lots of lube!.!.(if u need it), then just take it very easy!.!.veing on top isnt that great trying to relax cos you'd be doing all the work!.!.so be on ur back all the time!.!.even during the foreplay!.!.then get him to put it in and move it in and out very slowly so you wont get hurt!.!.!.then take it from there!.!.and stay RELAXED!.!.!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it could be hurting so much because the 2 of u (especially you) are not relaxed completely!.!.try having a nice warm bath before hand to chill out!.then just take things very easy!.!.have lots and lots of foreplay!.!.as much as you can!.!.staying as relaxed as you can because when ur nervous your muscles tense and it will be harder to get in!.!.therefor sorer!.!.anyway!.!.!.LOTS AND LOTS of foreplay!.!.you have to widen out (sorry if TMI)!.!.lots of lube!.!.(if u need it), then just take it very easy!.!.veing on top isnt that great trying to relax cos you'd be doing all the work!.!.so be on ur back all the time!.!.even during the foreplay!.!.then get him to put it in and move it in and out very slowly so you wont get hurt!.!.!.then take it from there!.!.and stay RELAXED!.!.!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you probably just popped you cherry!. don't worry many people bleed alot when some don't!. if i was you don't have sex for a week or more because you probally will still be a little sore!. also remember since you two had done it before doesent mean you popped your cherry, you probably just did that time!. hopefully next time it wont hurt as badWww@Answer-Health@Com
it might sound funny but if your boyfriend is fortunate in that area that could be the problem!.
it hurts some girls/women even when they've been sexually active for a while if they land themselves with a large man, and especially as you were a virgin it would hurt even more!.
sex hurts to begin with anyway let alone with someone that's quite big!.
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it hurts some girls/women even when they've been sexually active for a while if they land themselves with a large man, and especially as you were a virgin it would hurt even more!.
sex hurts to begin with anyway let alone with someone that's quite big!.
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A little bit of bleeding, yes
Heavy bleeding, no not really!.
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Heavy bleeding, no not really!.
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Is his penis a knife!? Cuz then that's normal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
E!.R!.!Www@Answer-Health@Com
that seems very worrisome you should call your doctorWww@Answer-Health@Com
your fine!. its just you guys were having sex one way where you were controlling it and then you guys did it another way your fine just take some tylenol and chill!. and dont use any more tampons when you have sex you can hurt yourself if you had a hard time putting it in!. and you can get sick!. the pain will go away along with you bleeding!. It sux but it's part of us being females!. If you weren't as sore as you said you are then i would say to be worried but i wen threw it so ull be fine!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Ok When you first have sex for the first time ever it does not always break the opening you will bleed and if your boyfriend isn't that large then you might bleed the next couple of times also after you start having sex you have to go see the obgyn they can answer all your questions accurately
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