Ok my little cousin lives with me and she got her period!?!


Question: Ok my little cousin lives with me and she got her period!!?
shes only 9 and she dosnt know what dat is and she said she dosnt want to tell my mom (her parents are dead) and!.!.!.!.!.she wants to know what that is but im afraid if i tell her she will be scared!.!.!. any help on telling her in a way thats most comfortable!? in way that wont make her be afriad!? by the way her name is EmmaWww@Answer-Health@Com


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Cindy G, I am so sorry that you have been raped!. I take it you want the baby! Babies are hard to look after :)

I just wished I was your friend, my friend is thinking about a baby she 17, I said I wont have any children until I am about 29!. I will support her with whatever she needs, go to the skin, help pay for clothes, baby sit!. I wish I was your friend, I love babies and I am really supportive!. Keep your head, I am sure your parents will understand!. After all, you did not intentional mean to become pregnant, he raped you!

Anyway, onto the cousin subject, sorry about her parents passing over that must be really hard!. Start off by saying do you want a little class lesson!. Prepare yourself, get pictures, drawings!. Ask her if she knows what it is, buy pads for her!. Do a mini test on her!. eg!. how many times a month do you get your period usually one)!. Make it fun but also informative!.

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9 that's a little early just tell her the truth or buy her the all about my body's american girl book!. Do not tell your mom because if emma finds out you did she will never tell you anything or trust you ever again!. im guessing you already started your period just give her some of your pads and when you talk to emma tell her this is girl talk and never talk about this with any guys she will think its cool that its a secret between you girls!.Also i really want some people to chat on yahoo with so can you add me to your contacts list!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

omg im sooo sorry about the way you got pregnant!.!.!.that happened to my friend only she didnt get pregnant!. i hope thats resolved :[
ok for this!.!.!.my sister started early too and was scared to death, because none of her friends had started yet and she had no one to talk to!. i would tell her that that means she is becoming a woman, and tell her the facts of a period, and sex, if you think shes reeady for that!. the important thing is for her to be aware and safe!. make it fun tho, dont freak her out, and show her how to wear a pad, and maybe when she is going swimming, how to put in a tampon :] good luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com

firstly are you sure its her period!? when my girlfriend was about 7 she went to the beach and got sand stuck inside there and it cut itself and bled!. everyone was worried but by two days later and with a good cleanup and some cream she was right as rain!. so make sure it is actually her period and not just a small cut or something!.
On the other hand my grandma did start her period at 8 but it's nothing to worry about, it can be as normal as with any other girl who's just a little older!. If you're unsure take her to your GP and get them to check it out!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

why would she be scared if you tell her!? I think shed be less scared if you help her understand!. Tell her that all babies come from eggs just like chickens that stay in the moms belly until they "hatch!." This is where I think the "birds and the bees" talk def needs to come up!.!.!.sshe has to know that she is able to ge preg n stuff!. Then tell her, since shes not ready to have a baby, the egg comes out!.!.!.!?Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell her the truth!. She needs to know what's happening in her body, don't lie to her, it will just make the situation more confusing than it already is!. And you are 15 and pregnant so clearly you know nothing about the reproductive cycle so have your mom explain it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Tell her she's becoming a woman first, then explain what it is!. Show her how to put a pad on, and maybe a little later a tampon!.

I think you might have to tell your mom, but if possible try to not tell Emma that you told your mom!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Gosh!. My daughter Laura also started her period at nine!.!.!. Believe me emma will understand more than you think!.!.!.!. These young kids usually are more adult than their peers!.!.!.!.Tell her straight in language she will understand!.!.!. Litttle sweetheart, how old are you tho to have to explain to her!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just tell Emma the truth give her a pad and go to barns and nobles and get a book called the care and keeping of u a body book for girls and take her for ice cream to help calm her nervesWww@Answer-Health@Com

Just tell her the truth, if you can't do that buy her a good book or phone your doctors surgery and ask to see a nurse!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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