Is it normal for someone not to get enjoyment out of sex at all? ?!
Question: Is it normal for someone not to get enjoyment out of sex at all!? !?
when i first had sex i didnt enjoy it at all!.!. the second time it still didnt get any better!.!. i did it like 1-2 more times and it just didn't feel right to me!.!. can anyone relate to this or tell me whats going on!.!. its like my vagina is getting tighter as we do it!. please give me some advice!.!. thank you very much!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Sex is supposed to be exciting and pleasurable!.
For people who have had a sexual experience that "wasn't supposed to happen" or was "traumatic" or "painful" - (there are other names for that, like molested, sexual assault, rape, incest!.!.!.!.)
There are longterm consequences for the person who did not want it to happen!. There is damage!.
Not enjoying sex is one form of the damage!.
Not trusting people
Fear
Guilt
Low self esteem
Acting-out or terrible fear of sex
Infact, the largest percentage of teenage runaways have been sexually assaulted!. It is part of their history they cannot live with!.
Wait for marriage!. When it is "right" you will be less fearful, and more relaxed!. The more relaxed you are, there isn't pain!.
See your Dr!. and discuss it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
For people who have had a sexual experience that "wasn't supposed to happen" or was "traumatic" or "painful" - (there are other names for that, like molested, sexual assault, rape, incest!.!.!.!.)
There are longterm consequences for the person who did not want it to happen!. There is damage!.
Not enjoying sex is one form of the damage!.
Not trusting people
Fear
Guilt
Low self esteem
Acting-out or terrible fear of sex
Infact, the largest percentage of teenage runaways have been sexually assaulted!. It is part of their history they cannot live with!.
Wait for marriage!. When it is "right" you will be less fearful, and more relaxed!. The more relaxed you are, there isn't pain!.
See your Dr!. and discuss it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Happens to a lot of people when they are starting out with sex, and some can have an ongoing thing too and cannot form relatinships because of the fear they have of not enjoying it!. Or fear of the pain etc
Sounds to me like you have "VAGINISMUS"!. Read this:
http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Vaginismus
You may not be emotionally ready for sex yet, as it seems your body is tensing up too much and therefore you will be uncomfortable!. Your brain is telling your down below region, " no, i don't like it", so it shuts up as your mindset is not in a relaxed state!.
Hope the article helps you to think more and reassure you that you're not abnormal and things may well change for you!.
God bless & STAY SAFE!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds to me like you have "VAGINISMUS"!. Read this:
http://en!.wikipedia!.org/wiki/Vaginismus
You may not be emotionally ready for sex yet, as it seems your body is tensing up too much and therefore you will be uncomfortable!. Your brain is telling your down below region, " no, i don't like it", so it shuts up as your mindset is not in a relaxed state!.
Hope the article helps you to think more and reassure you that you're not abnormal and things may well change for you!.
God bless & STAY SAFE!!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
it's normal to not enjoy it at the beginning!.
where your head is thinking constantly, and you're worried about it, it sends a sign physically and your vagina will begin to tighten up where you're not relaxed because in your head you're thinking you wont enjoy it!.
either that or you're not comfortable in the person you're having sex with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
where your head is thinking constantly, and you're worried about it, it sends a sign physically and your vagina will begin to tighten up where you're not relaxed because in your head you're thinking you wont enjoy it!.
either that or you're not comfortable in the person you're having sex with!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like you are not emotionally ready to have sex, to enjoy it you have got to be totally relaxed and eager to have sex!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
your not ready!.!.dont force yourself now-or you will always have a fear of sex!
maybe you and whoever the person is need 2 have some more fun before going straight in2 it!!
take ur time!! and enjoy it!!!
its amazing xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you and whoever the person is need 2 have some more fun before going straight in2 it!!
take ur time!! and enjoy it!!!
its amazing xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
i dont know i have the same problemWww@Answer-Health@Com
there deff is something wrong with u! my best advice is to visit a doctor Www@Answer-Health@Com