Is it normal to be nervous?!
Question: Is it normal to be nervous!?
My fiancee has been over in Iraq for 15 months!.!.!. I seen him in March for R&R, but now it's been almost 8 months since I seen him!. He comes him in about a week and I am really excited! But at the same time I am really nervous, I havn't kissed anyone or done anything with anyone since he was home and I am nervous I will forget what I'm doing!. I am also nervous cause I dont know if he's changed, if I changes, or if we both changed since we last saw eachother!. Don't get me wrong, I am really excited he is coming home and I can't wait, but I just dont know if it's normal to be nervous about this stuff!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Very very normal!. When my husband was coming back from Iraq, I felt the same way!.!.!.and he's my HUSBAND!. I felt bad that I was feeling so nervous!. You both will have definitely changed!. Just remember that and keep that in mind because things will have changed for both of you!. You can choose to make it a change for the better or for the worse!. It's really hard work, I have to tell you!. But for me, it's been worth it :) My husband is a Marine, so when we would be on a deployment, he was gone the entire time!.!.!.no R&R!. If we can pull together, anyone can!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It is understandable to be nervous!. I think that he will be a bit different - you can't go through something like he's gone through and be the same person anymore!. I know that you shouldn't make a big fuss when he does - for example have a lot of people there to meet him!.
There should be some good information available to you through his command centre or whatever they call it on how to help him readjust to 'regular' life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There should be some good information available to you through his command centre or whatever they call it on how to help him readjust to 'regular' life!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I believe it is normal to be nervous, was without my ex finance once before for 13 months and I thought lots of things!. Like if she had cheated on me!.!.!.!.if I would remember HER spots, if she still wants me or sex in general!. If i would still be cute enough for her, general anxiety over other self esteem issues all humans have!.!.!.But in the end it was all great!.!.!.!.!.Well it was for a while, but that's another story!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes its normal, and expect some changes in him!. War does that to people!. Be Patient with him while he gets himself situated again!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i think its normal to be nervous and excited at the same time!. he is maybe as nervous and excited as u r!. good luck Www@Answer-Health@Com