I'm soo embarrassed about my body!?!
Question: I'm soo embarrassed about my body!!?
I'm 14 and i'm quite well developed for my age!. I'm a 32E and all the boys whistle after me and in P!.E sometimes we have to do it with the boys and they're always oogling at me and it makes me feel really arkward and out of place!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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For a start ignore Lucy V, that's the worst advice to give anyone, ever!.
For PE you need a good sports bra, that should keep them covered up and stop them bouncing around!.
For the rest of the day you can get a minimiser bra (Marks and Spencer do a good one) and next time the boys are staring at you call them out on it - when they realise you know they're looking they'll probably get embarrassed and stop!. Or if you really wana embarrass them, whistle and point and stare at their crotch!. That ought to do it :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
For PE you need a good sports bra, that should keep them covered up and stop them bouncing around!.
For the rest of the day you can get a minimiser bra (Marks and Spencer do a good one) and next time the boys are staring at you call them out on it - when they realise you know they're looking they'll probably get embarrassed and stop!. Or if you really wana embarrass them, whistle and point and stare at their crotch!. That ought to do it :)Www@Answer-Health@Com
First of all you need to speak to the PE teacher because this while this is normal behaviour for teenage boys they need to stop!. It is sexual harrassment and you should be able to attend class without feeling awkward!. If the behaviour does not stop speak with your parents and let them know what is going on they can help you deal with the school and situation!.
I would not suggest getting a breast reduction at such a young age unless you are having back pain which can happen because of the breast size!.
Learn to love your body and be proud of what you have!. Some young woman have the opposite problem are embarrassed that they have small breasts!. I know it is hard but stand up and be proud do not let these little boys make you feel bad or uncomfortable about your body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would not suggest getting a breast reduction at such a young age unless you are having back pain which can happen because of the breast size!.
Learn to love your body and be proud of what you have!. Some young woman have the opposite problem are embarrassed that they have small breasts!. I know it is hard but stand up and be proud do not let these little boys make you feel bad or uncomfortable about your body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
hey !.!.!.well did you know if you have big boobs and you wear the right size bra then they can look smaller!.everytime you are buying a new bra get fitted and the tape is a rought guide line so you could still be wearing a smaller one!.i just saw that on a programme 10 mins ago lol and a girl measured in at 36 c on the tape when she was 30 e and you should really see them ha they look smaller know and really suit your bdy shape!.so try on the bra and bring a size bigger or two and see which is better!.
tou could get a long teashirt but dont get one neck high get one a little down on you collarbong just above your cleavage it maakes them seem smller!.oh and by the way all the girl in my school would kill for your boobs they all want big ones!.ive ds and they jelous lol even tho i want biggerWww@Answer-Health@Com
tou could get a long teashirt but dont get one neck high get one a little down on you collarbong just above your cleavage it maakes them seem smller!.oh and by the way all the girl in my school would kill for your boobs they all want big ones!.ive ds and they jelous lol even tho i want biggerWww@Answer-Health@Com
I have come to the conclusion that all men really want is their own pair of boobs - they would be happy then and stop acting like idiots when they see a pair worth appreciating!.
I agree with the lady above - buying a shirt/top one or even 2 sizes bigger definitely helps to blur the reality - but not really enough that the 2 year olds will be put off much!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with the lady above - buying a shirt/top one or even 2 sizes bigger definitely helps to blur the reality - but not really enough that the 2 year olds will be put off much!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, you got my hat ;) Haha!
Anyhow, the thing is with boys is, that is ALL they think about is, boobs, bums, bodies, vaginas, everything!. They can never see through the inside for who these girls are!. If they are oggling you, or groping you up in anyway, you MUST tell a teacher or your parents!. This is not the way to treat people and they need to get a life and grow up!. We all are developed either slowly, or fast!. And different!. So don't put up with it!. Speak out, and be proud of it!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
Anyhow, the thing is with boys is, that is ALL they think about is, boobs, bums, bodies, vaginas, everything!. They can never see through the inside for who these girls are!. If they are oggling you, or groping you up in anyway, you MUST tell a teacher or your parents!. This is not the way to treat people and they need to get a life and grow up!. We all are developed either slowly, or fast!. And different!. So don't put up with it!. Speak out, and be proud of it!. xWww@Answer-Health@Com
there is nothing you can really do just be confident about it you have great bust and guys apreciate the way you look but if you feel uncomfortable dont wear any clothes with big cuts in bust area and bigger size tshirts will also do!.Baggy clothes is always an answer to hide somethingWww@Answer-Health@Com
I had the same thing in school in the 1980's!.!.!.if I had known then what I know now it would have been a different story! I advise you to complain!.!.write a letter!.!.!.don't sign it if you are embarrased!.!.!.but write a letter to the headteacher and tell them what you told us!.!.!.!.it is basically sexual harrasment and it is making you uncomfortable!.!.!.!.you have a right to be comfortable at school and to concentrate on your studies without feeling that you are being sexually harassed!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
talk to your teacher and explain that the whistling and general negative attention you're getting is upsetting!.
I'm sure your not the first or last to be large up top for your age, they'll probably be able to make some suggestions and help you outWww@Answer-Health@Com
:S I'm 14 and I'm 36AA
I have like a thick chest!.!.
Even though i'm only AA boys still do that to me!.!.
Do not worry about it, boys are idiots you just have to learn to ignore them!.!.
One of my friends that was your size had an operation to make them smaller, you could try that if you tried!. :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I have like a thick chest!.!.
Even though i'm only AA boys still do that to me!.!.
Do not worry about it, boys are idiots you just have to learn to ignore them!.!.
One of my friends that was your size had an operation to make them smaller, you could try that if you tried!. :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
I knew girls that wore two sports bra to minimize the size of thier chest!.
Consider this a blessing - you get to know which guys are pigs right from jump - teh rest of us have to play around with them for a while before we find out!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Consider this a blessing - you get to know which guys are pigs right from jump - teh rest of us have to play around with them for a while before we find out!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lap it up :)
I you show them you dont care they'l stop, if you don't like your boobs at all you should possibly talk to your doctor about a reduction however im not sure if you would have to wait til yur a little olderWww@Answer-Health@Com
I you show them you dont care they'l stop, if you don't like your boobs at all you should possibly talk to your doctor about a reduction however im not sure if you would have to wait til yur a little olderWww@Answer-Health@Com
dotn make a issue of it, if your blessed with an attractive feature you will probably get attention all your life with it, learn to embrace it and remeber its better than them making fun of a disfigurment or somthing horrible :D
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Flick them off and tell them they are perverts!. "I guess it's weird for you to see something big in front, huh"!. Ya, it's lame, but target their masculinity if they won't leave you alone!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Punch them in the face!.
Seriously, though, just try not to wear tight or skimpy clothes!. In a few years the boys will be more mature!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Seriously, though, just try not to wear tight or skimpy clothes!. In a few years the boys will be more mature!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Rip another girls shorts down!.!. that should divert their attention!.!. or wear a tracksuit!.!.!!
oh oh or!.!. better yet,!.!.! A guys shorts down!.!. that wil get the girls laughing at him!.!.! :O and they shouldnt mess with u again ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
oh oh or!.!. better yet,!.!.! A guys shorts down!.!. that wil get the girls laughing at him!.!.! :O and they shouldnt mess with u again ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com
BUY A SPORTS BRA!. AND GET MEASURED FOR IT!. WEAR TOPS A LITTLE ON THE LOOSE SIDE BUT NOT OVER BIG!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
speak to your gym teacher and ask if you can sit it out, tell her why, hopefully she will be supportive Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you get a larger top, it might cover you a little more!. (:Www@Answer-Health@Com
wear ugly clothes
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wear more tahn 1 bra!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
you could wear 2 sports bras!. it really helps =]Www@Answer-Health@Com
why wouldnt you like that!?
maybe you could get a breast reduction!.
also, in this society guys are pigs, so just go along with it!.
most girls dont get that kind of attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
maybe you could get a breast reduction!.
also, in this society guys are pigs, so just go along with it!.
most girls dont get that kind of attention!.Www@Answer-Health@Com