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i'm 15 female!. in love with this boy, truly!. i'm not just feeling the young love jitters; i know how those are!. this is true, my heart is telling me it is!. anyways, would it be a bad idea for me to have sex!? neither of us have had any other partners and are completely clean!. no std's or aids or anything like that!. serious answer very appreciated!.(:Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
don't go for sex!.!.!.
after marry!.!. and ur age is verrry smalllll
what he will do!.!. he will put his penis inside u!.!.nothing will happen with boy !.!. effect is with u!.!.
this ur life matter!.!. if any happens u will cry :-(!.!. i know u people r open mind!.!. but after u like girls crying!.!. :-( boys enjoingg :-) and girls cryiiingg :-( after sex!.!.unknow / unwanted!.!.
i know this age like this" no one can control "sex",, but u have to control for ur safety!.!.!.and happily life/good life!.!.
do sex only with ur husband/wife!.!. :-)
or
it's ur life / ur decision!.!.!
Give me best answer point, if u like!.!.! Www@Answer-Health@Com
after marry!.!. and ur age is verrry smalllll
what he will do!.!. he will put his penis inside u!.!.nothing will happen with boy !.!. effect is with u!.!.
this ur life matter!.!. if any happens u will cry :-(!.!. i know u people r open mind!.!. but after u like girls crying!.!. :-( boys enjoingg :-) and girls cryiiingg :-( after sex!.!.unknow / unwanted!.!.
i know this age like this" no one can control "sex",, but u have to control for ur safety!.!.!.and happily life/good life!.!.
do sex only with ur husband/wife!.!. :-)
or
it's ur life / ur decision!.!.!
Give me best answer point, if u like!.!.! Www@Answer-Health@Com
You're ready for sex as soon as you want to do it *and* are comfortable and happy with the following, and of you're not comfortable with *all* of it, you're probably not ready:
First!.!.!. really be *sure* you wanna "do it" with the guy you've chosen!.
You're a virgin, and your first full-on sex *should* be with someone you're really gonna want to *be* that intimate with for a while, and I don't just mean the physical intimacy because there's a lot of mental and emotional stuff that comes with the hormones and hangups that fill the sexual territory between partners!. You'll be MUCH better and happier for choosing such a person, even if that "while" only turns out to be a few weeks!.!.!. trust me on this point, OK!?
First-timing can be pretty disappointing for girls, not just because it's often painful (at least at first), but also because nervousness and awkwardness for both of you can make it very difficult for *you* to concentrate on your own pleasure!. You don't have to worry too much about *his* pleasure: except for some possible emotional stuff, he's going to enjoy it a *lot* - even his first time!. Young men are lucky that way, sure, but it's also a very rare man indeed (but not at all a rare woman) who can have several orgasms in less than half an hour!. :-)
Advice!? Tips!? Good things to plan for and think about!?
Make sure you have lots of total privacy for quite a long time (three hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted!.
When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop"!.
Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery!.!.!. a couple of orgasms first will also help your vagina to be stretchier and more insistent on having something inside - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable!.
That lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom!. Yes, the condom!. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"!.!.!. or sometimes "parents with STDs"!.
Any pain you may feel will go away in a few minutes to a couple of days (sometimes there's a little bruising), and after it's over with, each time will be *much* better if you stick to everything above!.
Oral sex is also fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it!. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but that isn't necessary unless you both want it!.
Source(s):
I'm a guy, and I'm almost 50 years old, but I would have benefited hugely from most of this advice myself the first time *I* had sex - at age 13!. No regrets, but I know now that we both would have fared a lot better if we'd thought about these things even for a few days!.
Since then, I've raised 4 kids who've grown up to be fairly responsible and (more important) sexually healthy people!. I'd *like* to think that their mothers and I were the ones who helped them to become that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First!.!.!. really be *sure* you wanna "do it" with the guy you've chosen!.
You're a virgin, and your first full-on sex *should* be with someone you're really gonna want to *be* that intimate with for a while, and I don't just mean the physical intimacy because there's a lot of mental and emotional stuff that comes with the hormones and hangups that fill the sexual territory between partners!. You'll be MUCH better and happier for choosing such a person, even if that "while" only turns out to be a few weeks!.!.!. trust me on this point, OK!?
First-timing can be pretty disappointing for girls, not just because it's often painful (at least at first), but also because nervousness and awkwardness for both of you can make it very difficult for *you* to concentrate on your own pleasure!. You don't have to worry too much about *his* pleasure: except for some possible emotional stuff, he's going to enjoy it a *lot* - even his first time!. Young men are lucky that way, sure, but it's also a very rare man indeed (but not at all a rare woman) who can have several orgasms in less than half an hour!. :-)
Advice!? Tips!? Good things to plan for and think about!?
Make sure you have lots of total privacy for quite a long time (three hours or more is a good idea) because not only might there be some uncomfortable, embarrassing or painful moments along the way, but there's more to the first time than just "doing it", and you'll have a lot of stuff to talk about afterwards - you do *not* want any of this to be interrupted!.
When it comes to intercourse, tell your guy that *you* will be the one to say "stop" if anything's wrong (like pain, or even if you just chicken out) and that it's up to him to remember that when you tell him "stop"!.
Don't even *try* unless you're very turned on and very slippery!.!.!. a couple of orgasms first will also help your vagina to be stretchier and more insistent on having something inside - and if you don't get very wet no matter how horny you are, have some water-based lube (KY, Astroglide, Wet or similar) handy and no matter what, go SLOW until you're comfortable!.
That lube will also help prevent breakage of the condom!. Yes, the condom!. There's a name for people who rely on "pulling out" as a method of avoiding pregnancy: "parents"!.!.!. or sometimes "parents with STDs"!.
Any pain you may feel will go away in a few minutes to a couple of days (sometimes there's a little bruising), and after it's over with, each time will be *much* better if you stick to everything above!.
Oral sex is also fine any time at all for either person, at least if both of them are comfortable with it and enjoy it!. Doing it until the person receiving has an orgasm is nicest, but that isn't necessary unless you both want it!.
Source(s):
I'm a guy, and I'm almost 50 years old, but I would have benefited hugely from most of this advice myself the first time *I* had sex - at age 13!. No regrets, but I know now that we both would have fared a lot better if we'd thought about these things even for a few days!.
Since then, I've raised 4 kids who've grown up to be fairly responsible and (more important) sexually healthy people!. I'd *like* to think that their mothers and I were the ones who helped them to become that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
this is only a choice that you can make!. Its a choice that you will remember forever and you should make sure that you have plenty of condoms as well as talking to your mom about getting on the pill i bet she may be upset because you are telling her that you want to have sex but she will be pleased that you are making the choice to talk to her and get the birth Control that you need!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
if you are absolutely positive you are ready and he is the right guy for you to lose it to!. You should be ok to lose it to him, you are a little young but if you feel you are ready!. Make sure you use protection!. Since it is your first time make sure you use lubrication and he gets you wet because it will probably hurt and lubrication helps with the pain!.Also make sure you relax and know that it probably will not be very good a girls first time never is!.
p!.s!. if you have not been dating this guy for too long i would wait a little while if he truely cares he will wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
p!.s!. if you have not been dating this guy for too long i would wait a little while if he truely cares he will wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Well if you feel ready and you don't feel you'll regret it, and in a stable relationship, go for it!.
But condoms sometimes break, and so if you did get pregnant, do you think the guy will stay with you and raise the child!?
Or if maybe not, and you really don't want to be a teen mom, are you comfortable with the plan b pill or abortion!?
Just make sure you use a condom everytime no matter what day of the month it is!. And lube tends to prevent the condom from breaking as easily!.
have fun :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
But condoms sometimes break, and so if you did get pregnant, do you think the guy will stay with you and raise the child!?
Or if maybe not, and you really don't want to be a teen mom, are you comfortable with the plan b pill or abortion!?
Just make sure you use a condom everytime no matter what day of the month it is!. And lube tends to prevent the condom from breaking as easily!.
have fun :]Www@Answer-Health@Com
If you want to have sex- please tell your parents first so you can get the right safety precautions(unless you wanna have a baby!.!.!.)!. Make sure you have a condom and are on the pill!.
My sister started having sex when she was 15!. If you really love this boy then I say do IT! Go for it girl!. Just make sure you are safe!. Please make sure you are safe because you don't want a baby when your fifteen!.
EDIT
woah don't think I'll get 10 points!.!.!. ahem the answer above me is an over achiever >!.< *glares* Just kidding :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
My sister started having sex when she was 15!. If you really love this boy then I say do IT! Go for it girl!. Just make sure you are safe!. Please make sure you are safe because you don't want a baby when your fifteen!.
EDIT
woah don't think I'll get 10 points!.!.!. ahem the answer above me is an over achiever >!.< *glares* Just kidding :PWww@Answer-Health@Com
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