I'm always TOO tight?!
Question: I'm always TOO tight!?
When I lost my virginity it did hurt but everytime i would have sex after that it would hurt!. But now that im with someone else (He's Bigger) it seems like if we dont have sex for a week its so tight it feels like im losing my virginity all over again and we have been having sex for over a year!. Why is it like this now!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
You mat be suffering from a condition called vaginismus!.
Vaginismus Symptoms
Depending on the intensity, vaginismus symptoms range from minor burning sensations with tightness to total closure of the vaginal opening with impossible penetration!.
Common symptoms of vaginismus
?Burning or stinging with tightness during sex
?Difficult or impossible penetration, entry pain, uncomfortable insertion of penis
?Unconsummated marriage
?Ongoing sexual discomfort or pain following childbirth, yeast/urinary infections, STDs, IC, hysterectomy, cancer and surgeries, rape, menopause, or other issues
?Ongoing sexual pain of unknown origin, with no apparent cause
?Difficulty inserting tampons or undergoing a pelvic/gynecological exam
?Spasms in other body muscle groups (legs, lower back, etc!.) and/or halted breathing during attempts at intercourse
?Avoidance of sex due to pain and/or failure
Variations in the experience of vaginismus
Vaginismus can be triggered in both younger and older women, in those with no sexual experience and those with years of experience!. Not all women experience vaginismus the same way, and the extensiveness of vaginismus varies:
?Some women are unable to insert anything at all!.
?Some women are able to insert a tampon and complete a gynecological exam, yet are unable to insert a penis!.
?Others are able to partially insert a penis, although the process is very painful!.
?Some are able to fully insert a penis, but tightness and discomfort interrupt the normal progression from arousal through to orgasm and bring pain instead!.
?Some women are able to tolerate years of uncomfortable intercourse with gradually increasing pain and discomfort that eventually interrupts the sexual experience!.
?Women may also experience years of intermittent difficulty with entry or movement and have to constantly be on their guard to control and relax their pelvic area when it suddenly 'acts up'!.
Primary Vaginismus
When a woman has never at any time been able to have pain-free intercourse due to vaginismus tightness, her condition is known as primary vaginismus!.
Primary vaginismus refers to the experience of vaginismus with 'first-time' intercourse attempts!. Typically, primary vaginismus will be discovered when a woman attempts to have sex for the very first time!. The spouse/partner is unable to achieve penetration and it is like he just bumps into a 'wall' where there should be the opening to the vagina!. Entry is impossible or extremely difficult!. Primary vaginismus is the common cause of sexless, unconsummated marriages!. Some women with primary vaginismus will also experience problems with tampon insertion or gynecological exams!. The PC muscles constrict and tighten the vaginal opening making it uncomfortable or in many cases virtually impossible to have entry!. When tightened, attempts to insert anything into the vagina produce pain or discomfort!.
Some women also experience related spasms in other body muscle groups or even halted breathing!. Generally, when the attempt to put something in the vagina has ended, the muscles relax and return to normal!. For this reason, medical examinations often fail to reveal any apparent problems unless the tightness occurs and is noted during the pelvic exam!.
Secondary Vaginismus
Vaginismus Risk Factors
Vaginismus can strike any woman at any time at any age!. Contributing factors could include:
?Pelvic pain due to a medical condition, infection, physical trauma or assault, age-related changes, or painful physical events such as childbirth!.
?Emotional distress, anxiety, fear, relational difficulties, or other similar emotions that relate to sex, intimacy, past trauma, or relationships!.
?The anticipation pelvic pain due to some past or present condition or situation!.
?Other causes!.
Secondary vaginismus sexual pain can affect women in all stages of life, even women who have had many years of pain-free intercourse!.
Secondary vaginismus refers to the experience of tightness pain or penetration difficulties later in life, after previously being able to have normal, pain-free intercourse!. It typically follows or is triggered by temporary pelvic pain or other related problems!. It can be triggered by medical conditions, traumatic events, relationship issues, surgery, life-changes (e!.g!. menopause), or for no apparent reason (see Causes for more examples)!. Secondary vaginismus is the common culprit where there is continued, ongoing sexual pain or penetration tightness where there had been no problem before!.
Most commonly, secondary vaginismus strikes women experiencing temporary pelvic pain problems such as urinary or yeast infections, pain from delivering babies, menopause, or surgery!. The initial pain problems are addressed medically, healed, and/or managed, yet women continue to experience ongoing sexual pain or penetration difficulties due to vaginismus!. While the initial temporary pain was experienced, their bodiesWww@Answer-Health@Com
Vaginismus Symptoms
Depending on the intensity, vaginismus symptoms range from minor burning sensations with tightness to total closure of the vaginal opening with impossible penetration!.
Common symptoms of vaginismus
?Burning or stinging with tightness during sex
?Difficult or impossible penetration, entry pain, uncomfortable insertion of penis
?Unconsummated marriage
?Ongoing sexual discomfort or pain following childbirth, yeast/urinary infections, STDs, IC, hysterectomy, cancer and surgeries, rape, menopause, or other issues
?Ongoing sexual pain of unknown origin, with no apparent cause
?Difficulty inserting tampons or undergoing a pelvic/gynecological exam
?Spasms in other body muscle groups (legs, lower back, etc!.) and/or halted breathing during attempts at intercourse
?Avoidance of sex due to pain and/or failure
Variations in the experience of vaginismus
Vaginismus can be triggered in both younger and older women, in those with no sexual experience and those with years of experience!. Not all women experience vaginismus the same way, and the extensiveness of vaginismus varies:
?Some women are unable to insert anything at all!.
?Some women are able to insert a tampon and complete a gynecological exam, yet are unable to insert a penis!.
?Others are able to partially insert a penis, although the process is very painful!.
?Some are able to fully insert a penis, but tightness and discomfort interrupt the normal progression from arousal through to orgasm and bring pain instead!.
?Some women are able to tolerate years of uncomfortable intercourse with gradually increasing pain and discomfort that eventually interrupts the sexual experience!.
?Women may also experience years of intermittent difficulty with entry or movement and have to constantly be on their guard to control and relax their pelvic area when it suddenly 'acts up'!.
Primary Vaginismus
When a woman has never at any time been able to have pain-free intercourse due to vaginismus tightness, her condition is known as primary vaginismus!.
Primary vaginismus refers to the experience of vaginismus with 'first-time' intercourse attempts!. Typically, primary vaginismus will be discovered when a woman attempts to have sex for the very first time!. The spouse/partner is unable to achieve penetration and it is like he just bumps into a 'wall' where there should be the opening to the vagina!. Entry is impossible or extremely difficult!. Primary vaginismus is the common cause of sexless, unconsummated marriages!. Some women with primary vaginismus will also experience problems with tampon insertion or gynecological exams!. The PC muscles constrict and tighten the vaginal opening making it uncomfortable or in many cases virtually impossible to have entry!. When tightened, attempts to insert anything into the vagina produce pain or discomfort!.
Some women also experience related spasms in other body muscle groups or even halted breathing!. Generally, when the attempt to put something in the vagina has ended, the muscles relax and return to normal!. For this reason, medical examinations often fail to reveal any apparent problems unless the tightness occurs and is noted during the pelvic exam!.
Secondary Vaginismus
Vaginismus Risk Factors
Vaginismus can strike any woman at any time at any age!. Contributing factors could include:
?Pelvic pain due to a medical condition, infection, physical trauma or assault, age-related changes, or painful physical events such as childbirth!.
?Emotional distress, anxiety, fear, relational difficulties, or other similar emotions that relate to sex, intimacy, past trauma, or relationships!.
?The anticipation pelvic pain due to some past or present condition or situation!.
?Other causes!.
Secondary vaginismus sexual pain can affect women in all stages of life, even women who have had many years of pain-free intercourse!.
Secondary vaginismus refers to the experience of tightness pain or penetration difficulties later in life, after previously being able to have normal, pain-free intercourse!. It typically follows or is triggered by temporary pelvic pain or other related problems!. It can be triggered by medical conditions, traumatic events, relationship issues, surgery, life-changes (e!.g!. menopause), or for no apparent reason (see Causes for more examples)!. Secondary vaginismus is the common culprit where there is continued, ongoing sexual pain or penetration tightness where there had been no problem before!.
Most commonly, secondary vaginismus strikes women experiencing temporary pelvic pain problems such as urinary or yeast infections, pain from delivering babies, menopause, or surgery!. The initial pain problems are addressed medically, healed, and/or managed, yet women continue to experience ongoing sexual pain or penetration difficulties due to vaginismus!. While the initial temporary pain was experienced, their bodiesWww@Answer-Health@Com
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