I am a F****** loner!! I am a 21 year old girl!?!
Question: I am a F****** loner!! I am a 21 year old girl!!?
Well, I grew up being shy and I don't have any real friends, never had a boyfriend, never go out -- just stay at home! My parents are really strict! What should I do!?
Please don't say move out, or go to the bar, or go clubbing because I won't do any of that stuff, I am NOT like that!
I am f****** depressed and getting worse! Nothing is happening right in my life! And school isn't either! Anyone!?!!?!!?
P!.s!. I am not fat or anything!. I am attractive, dress nice all the time!. I do have sick nasty guys hitting on me which I don't like them!. And I don't dress like a ****!. SO WHAT THE f*** is the PROBLEM!?!!?!
I go to the movies by myself --- OMG!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please don't say move out, or go to the bar, or go clubbing because I won't do any of that stuff, I am NOT like that!
I am f****** depressed and getting worse! Nothing is happening right in my life! And school isn't either! Anyone!?!!?!!?
P!.s!. I am not fat or anything!. I am attractive, dress nice all the time!. I do have sick nasty guys hitting on me which I don't like them!. And I don't dress like a ****!. SO WHAT THE f*** is the PROBLEM!?!!?!
I go to the movies by myself --- OMG!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
well it's hard to fnd people that you actually want to be around!. In school i had a "best friend" and tons of friends!. But as soon as i got out of school we all went our own ways so obviously we werent that close lol!. I do have one frind that i have bee friends with though sence we were in pre school ,but she is really my only friend!. Do you work!? i think if you got a job even a part time job you will meet people and hopefully ones you like lol!. I met a few people when i was workin but only one i have remianed semi friends with!. And like you said don't tell you to go out to a bar and stuff cuz you won't that is a god tig todo, because why go out to places you hate and meet people who like it!? that makes no sence!. Just try and do stuff you like and hopefuly you will meet people who like that same things and like you!. And your talking about your looks,not everything is based on looks ok, so maybe you have a crappy out look on things and rely on your looks to much and not enough on your personality!. all i can say is don't worry about it , and try and have fun by yourself eventually you will meet a man and sum friends!. if you try to hard it will never hapen, like they say **** hapends when you least expect it, if your expecting it all the time it may never be!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Why don't you join the gym, church, a club or social organization where you might meet eligible young men that might be worth your attention!. You also might consider getting some counseling for your depression!. Maybe you could find someone to talk to that might make you see other things you can do to better yourself!. You have to put yourself out there a little bit, act interested in nice men, make them want to learn more about you and maybe things will change for you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i was like that for the LONGEST TIME!!!!!!!!
i went on antidepression stuff which did NOTHING!. i had NO self confidence because i had no friends!.
the thing that fixed me was one-whenever someone made me mad i b)tched them out and 2 i took birth control!.
it gave me bigger boobs!. big confidence booster!.
also, act happy all the time!. invite people to stuff
anyone who has this problem- email me!. i can give you some REAL advice on how to get out of the rut!. i dont feel like putting it in my answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
i went on antidepression stuff which did NOTHING!. i had NO self confidence because i had no friends!.
the thing that fixed me was one-whenever someone made me mad i b)tched them out and 2 i took birth control!.
it gave me bigger boobs!. big confidence booster!.
also, act happy all the time!. invite people to stuff
anyone who has this problem- email me!. i can give you some REAL advice on how to get out of the rut!. i dont feel like putting it in my answer!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I used to be really shy to and scared to talk to people!. When i got jobs to where i had to talk to people it really opened me up and i am not as shy anymore!. You just need to start talking if you have a job start talking to people you work with and your custermers!. I am not 21 but i am 20 years old! you can add me on myspace if you have it!. lol
mines
http://www!.myspace!.com/angelacass1988
anyway good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
mines
http://www!.myspace!.com/angelacass1988
anyway good luckWww@Answer-Health@Com
Nothing! It's the other people!. I don't have a freaking best friend because in my small town there is no one like me!. I kind of understand what you are going through!. I don't thing any thing is wrong with you!. You just need to find someone that is around your age group and likes the stuff you like!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
well first off wash your mouth out with soap!. Dropping the f-bomb so many times was pointless!.
Guess what!? Nothing is going to change untill YOU change it!. Talking like a sailor and having pitty for yourself isnt going to make you popular!.
Change your outlook on life and stop being so negative!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Guess what!? Nothing is going to change untill YOU change it!. Talking like a sailor and having pitty for yourself isnt going to make you popular!.
Change your outlook on life and stop being so negative!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
You need to look for people who are intrested in what you are what ever that maybe!. There for you have something in common and your shyness won't be a problem and build from there!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just go to places where you think a guy your type would be =) good luck! You are young -- don't worry!Www@Answer-Health@Com
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Your life mirrors mine!. Even the same age!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Drop in and say hello !. I'll be your friend ;-)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get involved in school clubs!. Take classes with group projects ( I hate them too, but I actually know three guys on campus now!) Go to the hardware store for your dad and ask a cute guy for help with what you're looking for!.
Just some ideas!.!.!.!.
? TaylorWww@Answer-Health@Com
Just some ideas!.!.!.!.
? TaylorWww@Answer-Health@Com
first and foremost!.!.!.You should see your family doctor about your depression!. He can prescribe a anti-depressant to help you thru this!.
Then you can take your next step!.!.!.You need to join a club or organization that meets on a regular basis so it gives you the opportunity to meet some new friends!. The common interest is established and the conversation should be easy at first because you can talk about what ever it is the club is about!. Some suggestions!.!.!.!.Cooking, crafts, excercise, dance,drama, volleyball,bowling or photography classes!.!.!.!.You can even contact your local community college and get a list of interesting and fun classes to go to!. The point is , you need to be able to communicate with some other people that have the same interests that you share!.!.!.!.
Im in the KCMO area!.!.!.If you are close contact me and we can talk
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Then you can take your next step!.!.!.You need to join a club or organization that meets on a regular basis so it gives you the opportunity to meet some new friends!. The common interest is established and the conversation should be easy at first because you can talk about what ever it is the club is about!. Some suggestions!.!.!.!.Cooking, crafts, excercise, dance,drama, volleyball,bowling or photography classes!.!.!.!.You can even contact your local community college and get a list of interesting and fun classes to go to!. The point is , you need to be able to communicate with some other people that have the same interests that you share!.!.!.!.
Im in the KCMO area!.!.!.If you are close contact me and we can talk
Good Luck!Www@Answer-Health@Com