Worried about my girlfriend,,,?!
Question: Worried about my girlfriend,,,!?
She never eats anything and if she does its like a couple of grapes or something like that!. She's been staying at my flat for a few days (fight with her flatmate) and I haven't seen her eat once!. I was out the other day and when I came home I offered to take her out for dinner!. She said she wasn't hungry as she had just eaten a massive meal already!. My flatmate had been in the whole day and I he told me later that she hadn't eaten anything!. Don't get me wrong, I like skinny girls but I wouldn't like her to become ill!. She'll comment sometimes about how much she hates fat people, but even if she did put on weight she wouldn't be fat!. She's bloody tiny already!. I spoke to my father about her and he said that all women are like this at her age, we're both 20!.
Should I be worried about her or is this just a stupid girl thing!?
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Should I be worried about her or is this just a stupid girl thing!?
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i think you should be worried about her!. it sounds as if shes develpoed an eating disorder, which it not good!.
usually its not about the food but something deeper then that, whether its something personal that has happened to her or even just a little comment that someones said to her that has really affected her!. it really depends on the girl and the way she feels about herself!. i understand wat shes going through and its not a good feeling at all!. it affects the way you think, feel and act!. she knows that wat shes doing is wrong but she probably cant help it!.!. like wen she looks in the fridge she;d want to eat something but aner just builds up because something is telling her that she cant so she simply just dosnt eat!.
you are able to see that she has a problem the moment she lies about wat shes eaten!.!.so im afraid it's going to get worse if nothing is done!.
trust me she does not want to hurt you in any way!.!.im sure she really loves the idea of you taking her out to dinner!.but she isnt able to say yes because of wats going on in her mind!.
doesnt sound like shes had this for log so its still early!.!.i recommend talking to her but dnt say how bad it is that shes doing this, be understanding and sincere towards her because she really cant contol it!. maybe try and see why she feels like this and wat has made her do this to herself!. just listen to her with open ears, no judging make her feel comfortable to talk openly about it to you because im sure she feels embarassed about it!. suggest she see someone to help her through it before it get worse, which sorry to say will eventually happen if she continues down this path
you sound like a great caring boyfriend!. and i hope everything works out for you!.
take care
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i think you should be worried about her!. it sounds as if shes develpoed an eating disorder, which it not good!.
usually its not about the food but something deeper then that, whether its something personal that has happened to her or even just a little comment that someones said to her that has really affected her!. it really depends on the girl and the way she feels about herself!. i understand wat shes going through and its not a good feeling at all!. it affects the way you think, feel and act!. she knows that wat shes doing is wrong but she probably cant help it!.!. like wen she looks in the fridge she;d want to eat something but aner just builds up because something is telling her that she cant so she simply just dosnt eat!.
you are able to see that she has a problem the moment she lies about wat shes eaten!.!.so im afraid it's going to get worse if nothing is done!.
trust me she does not want to hurt you in any way!.!.im sure she really loves the idea of you taking her out to dinner!.but she isnt able to say yes because of wats going on in her mind!.
doesnt sound like shes had this for log so its still early!.!.i recommend talking to her but dnt say how bad it is that shes doing this, be understanding and sincere towards her because she really cant contol it!. maybe try and see why she feels like this and wat has made her do this to herself!. just listen to her with open ears, no judging make her feel comfortable to talk openly about it to you because im sure she feels embarassed about it!. suggest she see someone to help her through it before it get worse, which sorry to say will eventually happen if she continues down this path
you sound like a great caring boyfriend!. and i hope everything works out for you!.
take care
:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
you should be worried about her SHES ANEREXIC!! if its that bad you neeed to get her help or her body might take food as a toxin and then she wont be able to eat!. You need to tell her how she needs to eat or you are going to send her to reahab or something!. Anerexia is not something to mess around with!. By not eating she is killing brain cells and soon (depending hoew long shes been doing this) she could even die!. Girls that are anerexic think that they are still fat even though there SCARY thin!. PLEASE PLEASE get her help!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
Your girlfriend does have an eating disorder!. You sound like a nice guy who has every right to be worried!. If I were you I would try to talk to her about it and explain how worried you are!. Try to persuade her to go to see a doctor with you and if she refuses go and speak to someone by yourself for some proffessional advice from people with experience in this field!. Be strong and stand by your girl - she needs you right now!. Godd Luck!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Stupid girl thing!? No, that is a disease you are describing!. Anorexia!. It's so common these days, which is very sad!. Please, get her some help!. Try talking to her parents or friends about it, then get everyone together, sit down, and talk to her about it!. Or if she is more of a shy kind of person, just talk to her one-on-one!. Do not ignore this! She could die if you let it go on long enough!.
Wishing you all the luck!. I hope she gets better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wishing you all the luck!. I hope she gets better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like she is afraid to eat because she thinks she will get fat, she could be anorexic and I would be concerned if I were you!. Sounds like she needs help!. Yes women like to be thin but starving yourself like she does is serious!. She needs her nutrition, and that disease can eventually kill her!. Www@Answer-Health@Com
She's obviously not in the mood to eat, as you said she just ha d a fight with a flatmate!. And maybe she may feel abit uncomfortable / shy in your house!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
very worried!. Your girlfriend has an eating disorder!. Your girlfriend needs help, if she doesn't starting eating more, she will die!. A body cannot live on just a couple of grapes!.
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She is bulimic!. Eating massive meals, waiting around 20 minutes, then forcing herself to throw up!.
First, her skin will become pallid!. The shadows under her eyes will darken and become more defined!. The enamel on her teeth will erode, they'll stain faster, and cavities will begin sprouting up because the stomach acid from regular forced vomit ate all the enamel away!. The back of her throat and mouth will become red and inflamed, from the stomach acid!. She'll start sleeping more, and will develop an extreme intolerance to cold and will bundle up unusually!. When she sees herself in the mirror, she sees an overweight woman!. Her mind is imbalanced, and she needs to see a shrink!. No woman starves themselves without first having something wrong with their mind!. Her skin in certain areas will begin to sag, and joints will look knobbly!. Her nails and hair will become brittle!. Her skin will dry out faster!. Her monthly period will also be gone!. Women must have at least 30% of body fat overall in order to have periods!. It's a biological fact, and women with starving eating disorders!.!.!. their bodies are literally eating themselves!.
Commit her!. If she refuses to go, commit her!. She is no longer in her right mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
First, her skin will become pallid!. The shadows under her eyes will darken and become more defined!. The enamel on her teeth will erode, they'll stain faster, and cavities will begin sprouting up because the stomach acid from regular forced vomit ate all the enamel away!. The back of her throat and mouth will become red and inflamed, from the stomach acid!. She'll start sleeping more, and will develop an extreme intolerance to cold and will bundle up unusually!. When she sees herself in the mirror, she sees an overweight woman!. Her mind is imbalanced, and she needs to see a shrink!. No woman starves themselves without first having something wrong with their mind!. Her skin in certain areas will begin to sag, and joints will look knobbly!. Her nails and hair will become brittle!. Her skin will dry out faster!. Her monthly period will also be gone!. Women must have at least 30% of body fat overall in order to have periods!. It's a biological fact, and women with starving eating disorders!.!.!. their bodies are literally eating themselves!.
Commit her!. If she refuses to go, commit her!. She is no longer in her right mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com