How do you have sex with a virgin?!


Question: How do you have sex with a virgin!?
I know that sounds like a stupid question but I'm kind of big and I don't want to hurt her!.
Should I use lube!? Or use my fingers beforehand!?
I really don't want to mess things up and I hear that sometimes girls bleed or that their first times are extremely painful!.
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Don't worry it's not a stupid question at all!. It's sweet that you want to help her as much as possible!.
Well it really depends on the girl ; some girls, it doesn't hurt at all, some it's really uncomfortable!.You might want to use lube (make sure you wear a condom!!!) and just being very gentle and only continuing with what she's comfortable with!. If she says it hurts and wants you to stop, stop!. You can make sure she's turned on, cause if she's not it will hurt a lot more!. Other than that, theres really not too much you can do!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

its going to hurt no matter what use lube and fingers beforehand!. Take it slow and dont try to go all the way inside her until she is ready!. She may bleed, so dont be scared because of it!. Make sure she fully relaxed, turned on and ready for it to happen!. Make sure you know this time will not be good for her a first time is never good for a girl!.


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Yes, use lube - and lots of foreplay!. That way, she'll be lubricated enough!. Take it slow, no use in rushing!.

When girls have pain, it's usually because they aren't lubricated enough or the guy rushed/is too rough!. Ask her what she likes; I'm sure you'll be able to tell if she's enjoying herself or not!. Bleeding can happen, but it doesn't necessarily mean its painful (I bled but my first time didn't hurt much)!.

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I've heard that the first time will always be a little uncomfortable!. But you should always use lube b/c that will cause some uncomfortable friction problems!. Make sure that both of you are ready for this "commitment" (I say that b/c it is somewhat of a commitment-if something happens and she gets pregnant, etc) and where protection properly!Www@Answer-Health@Com

talk to her and be gentle with her before sex and during that u should finger her first and use alot of lub!.!.!.if u having a protected sex u should use latex free condom to prevent irritation and discomfort becuase the vagina is targetted to get infected with bacteria during first time sex!!!!.!.!.relax it will go fineWww@Answer-Health@Com

I wouldn't know because I am still a virgin, but don't get all aggressive! be gentle steady pace until told otherwise, they say slow is the most passionate, but if you take it easy, you won't have to worry about hurting her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

You should let her ride that way she can pick the pace and if there is [which there will be] any discomfort she can adjust to make it work for her!.!.!.and in the long run her ridinexperiencee will make you feel like it was worth itWww@Answer-Health@Com

Okay,
Finger her first, Then when you go to have sex with her use lube and start out slow then getter faster as you go!.
As long as you go slow at first it will hurt still, But not as bad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

go slow and be very gentle my first time was with my bf who was big and it took a few times for it not to hurt and yes she will prob bleed so take it easy and be very well lubed upWww@Answer-Health@Com

just use a lot of lube!. and finger her for a while and just have a lot of four play!.!.!.!. and then start off really slowww!. it is going to be painful no matter what!. i cried my first couple times!.!. Www@Answer-Health@Com





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