Why is sex so painful for me right now ?!
Question: Why is sex so painful for me right now !?
Iv been experiencing awful pain lately when ever me and my boyfriend try to have sex!. It doesnt hurt any other time, and once he is in it is usually fine and most times I can even orgasm, its just that when he first enters I feel an unbareable pain, almost like he's ripping my vaginal walls apart inside!. The pain is so bad I almost cry sometimes and I scream out in pain!. I would describe it as a burning pain, almost like I have open wounds inside there and theyre being ripped open every time!. The pain begins about an inch inside my vagina where them muscles are that you can feel tightening when you tense up!.
Me and my bf have been together a year and have always had a very active and fullfilling sex life, and so I dont understand why this has suddenly become such a problem!. Obviously he is trying to be understanding but it is frustrating us both!.
I have tried tablets and creams for thrush but it didnt make any difference!. The problem started after a long session of quite rough sex!. Maybe I have been damaged inside!? Has any one ever experienced a similar problem !? Its really getting me down and Im starting to dread sex :-(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Me and my bf have been together a year and have always had a very active and fullfilling sex life, and so I dont understand why this has suddenly become such a problem!. Obviously he is trying to be understanding but it is frustrating us both!.
I have tried tablets and creams for thrush but it didnt make any difference!. The problem started after a long session of quite rough sex!. Maybe I have been damaged inside!? Has any one ever experienced a similar problem !? Its really getting me down and Im starting to dread sex :-(Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Well if you have some vaginal scarring or cuts from rough sex!. You need to abstain from having sex until you heal!. Since you know where it is sore!. Wait to see if the pain in that area goes away on its own!. Stop putting creams and stuff up there it may be giving you an allergic reaction called vaginitis!. Which can lead to other irritations down there!. The body does a good job flushing things out on its own!. If it doesn't get better in two weeks go see a gynecologist!. Sometimes STDs can cause painful sex!. However, I don't think you have an STD!. Most of all don't worry!. This has happened to me before too (not the STD) but the tearing and cuts!. In the future, you should have your beyfriend be more gentle with you!. Which means starting off slow until you are lubricated enough for him to go a little faster!. However, you need to put the breaks on him if it starts to hurt!. Remember guys don't know what hurts you if you don't tell them!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Actually, you need to see your gynocologist!. There is a problem that women can have with the vaginal muscles becoming too tight!. I don't remember what it is called - it's not fatal or dangerous, just problematic!. I also don't remember if there is any treatment for it or not, but this is a medical problem, best sorted out with a doctor!.
Gosh, I don't believe in sex before marriage either, but that was pretty rude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Gosh, I don't believe in sex before marriage either, but that was pretty rude!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Are you using a condom!? If you are maybe you have become allergic to the type of condom or the brand of condom!. Have you tried using Astroglide or some other form of lubricant!. It may be one or the other of these!. I can't think of anything else except you may have been torn up some, in which case I wouldn't have sex for a little bit to let it heal!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Because it's with a boyfriend and not a husband!. Your body sometimes reacts physically to such events!.
A "boyfriend" is not the word for your partner, in my opinion!. Get rid of him, change your life around, stop thinking that what you're doing is "okay" (and even "fulfilling") and CLOSE YOUR LEGS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A "boyfriend" is not the word for your partner, in my opinion!. Get rid of him, change your life around, stop thinking that what you're doing is "okay" (and even "fulfilling") and CLOSE YOUR LEGS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I agree with what you said about the rough sex thing!.!.!.More than likely that ripped something near the entrance and it keeps getting irritated when you have sex!. I would go to the doctor though because they probably have something that would heal it right up and you'll be back to normal again!. Hope you feel better!Www@Answer-Health@Com
you obviously have some internal damage to your vagina!. try not having sex for a week and let the inside of your vagina heal up and if it doesnt then you really should see your doctor as there maybe some serious internal damageWww@Answer-Health@Com
what horrible answers they first 2 ppl hav givin! hopefully they'll be blocked from yahoo!!!
I would see the doctor hunni! I've experienced this before but maybe not to the extent that i've cried in pain!. sorry to be so forward but do u find that u are moist enough !? have u tried lots of lube!? dont let it get to the point where u dread sex because it is an important part of a relationship no-matter what ppl say! i would ask the doctor or ask for a referal to a gynocologist!
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
I would see the doctor hunni! I've experienced this before but maybe not to the extent that i've cried in pain!. sorry to be so forward but do u find that u are moist enough !? have u tried lots of lube!? dont let it get to the point where u dread sex because it is an important part of a relationship no-matter what ppl say! i would ask the doctor or ask for a referal to a gynocologist!
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com
1!. You could just be so nervous so you screw it it up!.
2!. Maybe your not wet enough!.
3!. There might be something that is stressing you out at that specific moment!.
4!. He might be too fully erected when inserting his penis!.
5!. He might also be way too rough with the first few thrusts!.!.!.
6!. Try not using Latex Condoms they can cause probs as well!.!.!.
7!. Another strange thing which my own Gyni found out with me was that i was actually allergic to the fake eostrogen in the contraceptives and he took me off of them and now i'm great and can't remember what pain is anymore!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
2!. Maybe your not wet enough!.
3!. There might be something that is stressing you out at that specific moment!.
4!. He might be too fully erected when inserting his penis!.
5!. He might also be way too rough with the first few thrusts!.!.!.
6!. Try not using Latex Condoms they can cause probs as well!.!.!.
7!. Another strange thing which my own Gyni found out with me was that i was actually allergic to the fake eostrogen in the contraceptives and he took me off of them and now i'm great and can't remember what pain is anymore!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com