Can anyone give me advice on how to not have such a low self esteem?!
Question: Can anyone give me advice on how to not have such a low self esteem!?
I'm 13 and I have a really low self esteem, i know what your thinking!.!.!. all 13 year olds dont feel great about them selfs but mine is like extreme!. Random people at places i go will come up to me and tell me how gorgeous i am [no joke] but i cant believe them!. Im pretty quiet in school even though i hang out with the popular crowd!. I get all A's!. Im a perfectionist, i hate when i do things wrong!. I pretty much feel like i'm here for no reason!. I was in a depression right after i moved which was like 4-5 months ago!. and still kinda am but its got alot better!. when i was at volleyball tonight and this older girl and her friend came up to me and told me how pretty i was, i didnt even know her and then after i just felt like crying but i dont know why! So do you any advice for me to have more self confindence!? Thanks a whole bunch:)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
Aww hun I sometimes feel the same way, (14yr old girl), and even though some people have told me I'm pretty, I honestly don't feel like I am!. Thank photoshoped actresses for that!.!.!.what I do when I don't feel so great about myself is I write down 10 things I like about myself!. And I always strive for perfection too, so I know how hard it can be sometimes!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
^^best answer rite der {elle}
btw, is it possible dat u dont get enough attention from boyz & dat ur searching it 24/7, but ur only recieving it from girlz which is upsetting u!? & dat wud explain da reazon for ur crying, cuz u want GUYZ to give u attention cuz uve hada lack of it in ur life!.!.
well if it makes any sense!.!.!.cuz IM like dat!.!.but i dont necessarily have low self-esteem!.
i jus tear up anytime i watch a movie dat includes a guy kissing a girl or a guy tellin a girl how much he lovez her!.!.!.cuz to me, dat is a miracle & sometin dat cant be achieved in evryday life!.
{perhaps i shud post a question about dat, huh!?}Www@Answer-Health@Com
btw, is it possible dat u dont get enough attention from boyz & dat ur searching it 24/7, but ur only recieving it from girlz which is upsetting u!? & dat wud explain da reazon for ur crying, cuz u want GUYZ to give u attention cuz uve hada lack of it in ur life!.!.
well if it makes any sense!.!.!.cuz IM like dat!.!.but i dont necessarily have low self-esteem!.
i jus tear up anytime i watch a movie dat includes a guy kissing a girl or a guy tellin a girl how much he lovez her!.!.!.cuz to me, dat is a miracle & sometin dat cant be achieved in evryday life!.
{perhaps i shud post a question about dat, huh!?}Www@Answer-Health@Com