He won't use condoms...?!


Question: He won't use condoms!.!.!.!?
whenever i suggest using condoms he just says!."oh lets just not do it"
or he insinuates that we can do it but he wants to orgasm else where!.!.which i don't want!.
We have been together over a year and we always used to use them!. I have been for a checkup since we got together and its fine but i prefer condoms!.!.!.it just feels cleaner!.!.!!!
I know lots of people will say if he says no!.!.just don't have sex casue thats just not very helpful, everything else in the relationship is fine!.Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
I don't get it!. A condom takes like five seconds to put on!. Maybe he just prefers the skin to skin contact without a condom in the way!. BUT, if you are not comfortable not using one for whatever reason, let him know! Ask him why you used to use one and now you don't anymore!. Talk about it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Consider this, when it comes to sex, if one partner isn't willing to make sure the other partner is comfortable, then there is a problem!. Despite the fact that "everything else in the relationship is fine," this seems like a big issue that isn't fine with you!.

If he isn't willing to use a condom, you should just say "fine," and don't have sex!. If you give in, he will think that if he pushes, he can get what he want!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well i'm just gonna say what you don't want me to, because it's the right answer!. don't submit to anything you feel uncomfortable with!. if he doesn't respect and consider your preferences or feelings, then you should probably have a talk with him about it!. it may lead to an underlying issue in the relationship you're unaware of!. or, if it doesn't, then maybe this is a good time to discuss each of your sexual preferences!. talk it out, get it out in the open!. that's how relationships stay strong--talking and understanding each other!. :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to set boundries with him!. Having sex without condoms is dangerous in a lot of ways!. Lay down the law, and tell him that you're not going to have sex with him anymore until he uses condoms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well if he respects u enough he would consider using condoms, maybe u should sit down with him and let him know how u feel about him not using condoms and maybe u;ll work something out
if he dosent want to work out something then hes not worth it because ur health is more importantWww@Answer-Health@Com

1!. Practicing safe sex with condoms will decrease your chance of STDs and pregnancy!.
2!. Start taking birth control if you aren't already to prevent pregnancy!.
3!. Ask your boyfriend why he doesn't want to use condoms!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

just keep trying and pray he doesnt hurt youWww@Answer-Health@Com

Okay!.!.!.I have some experience on this one!. Let me just say that if you do not want to have sex without a condom then dont!. If he gets upset then he can just get over it!. If a condom is going to come between your relationship, then it is not worth it anyways!. With that said, let me tell you about my experience without condoms!. I was 17, in high school, and dating the love of my life!. We started having sex and at first we used condoms but after we were together longer he wanted to quit using them because "it feels sooo much better without one on", and he also said he would pull out at the right moment!. Well I gave in even though I didnt want to and he pulled out just in time,,,,or so I thought!. After 2 months of dating I was pregnant at 17!.!.!.!.there is no way I was ready to be a mother, I was supposed to be going to college in a few short months!. On the other hand there is no way I could kill an innocent child just because I chose not to either close my legs or use a condom!. My son is now 8 years old and the love of my life, but I can not describe how hard it is to be a mother at 17 when I still needed my mom just as much!. I know how it feels when you think you could lose someone you feel so strongly about, but you need to ask yourself if you are ready to be a mom, is he ready to be a dad, where would you live, how would you make money!? Another thing to consider is this!.!.!.even if neither of you have cheated or been with anyone else there is still a big chance of getting an infection!. Yeast infections are very common and there are some stds that people can have without any symptoms or very mild symptoms (hpv, pid) just look them up!. Always follow your heart and your gut!. I hope you make the right decision!. I think you should have a deep conversation with your partner on why you dont want to have sex without one and then ask him why he doesnt want to use one!. Maybe he just cant feel as much with one on!.!.!.!.!.but I think you should talk to him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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