Sharp stabbing pain during first time sex - help please!?!
Question: Sharp stabbing pain during first time sex - help please!!?
Today me and my girlfriend tried to have sex for the first time!. We're both 16 and have been going out for 6 months!. We've done all the basic things like fingering and oral!. With fingering, i could fit 1 finger in and 2 with a little force (didn't do this for her own comfort) but we tried to have sex today and when i was just entering she asked me to pull out of her and burst into tears complaining of a sharp-stabbing pain!? i've looked around and alot of sites talk about this pain but it being bareable!. Tbh from the look on her face it was one of the most painfull things that could happen!. i really need advice!.!.!. so does she, she feels its her fault!. even though i've explained it definetly wont be!.
can anyone tell me why this is happening and what to do!?
PLEASE HELP!.
thanks in advance!.
also, i know about the hymen and all of that!. i realise it is most likely the hymen but im not sure why it is causing thsi much pain!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
can anyone tell me why this is happening and what to do!?
PLEASE HELP!.
thanks in advance!.
also, i know about the hymen and all of that!. i realise it is most likely the hymen but im not sure why it is causing thsi much pain!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
i went through the same thing as her it was the walls of her opening ripping to fit you!. tell her to take a deep breath when u start to go in and u should go slow and make sure there is enough lubrication!. i almost told my bf to pull out too because it hurt so bad!. its ok!. just make sure you go really slow and try to make her feel comforted by kissing her forhead or something similar!. after a few times it doesnt hurt as bad and the more often u do it (like every other day not every day) it feels better!. she will bleed the first few times too thats normal!. i hope i helped if you want more info contact me using my email miamore889@yahoo!.com goodluckWww@Answer-Health@Com
It will hurt her the first time!. You are right, it is the hymen breaking!. It's gonna hurt!. I have heard that if she is really wet then it can loosen things up a bit and not be too painful!. Try getting her aroused more before entering!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
She's not ready!. She's not into it!. Back off!.Www@Answer-Health@Com