Im depressed because of my labia :(?!


Question: Im depressed because of my labia :(!?
hey guys
im a 17 year old girl and i want to share my problem with u:
my inner labia hang down far more than they should do, like past my outer vaginal lips, it looks wrong and unnatractive, i know theyre not meant to be like this, theyre meant to be small and not visible when i stand (which mine are)!.
i have a boyfriend who ive been with for 6 months and we are both ready to have sex and i would love to do this beyond anything else, but i am TERRIFIED of what he will think of me!. im afraid he will look at me and think 'thats not right!' but not say anything, or take the mick out of me (he does that with other parts of me, but not in a mean way)!. im just SO SO scared and i hate my labia so much, ive tried to convince myself theyre normal and i know they are but i ust cant take this anymore :(
i cry all the time about it and i just think WHY ME! i dont let him anywhere near me down there and he HATES it and doesnt understand but i cant tell him :(
any help would be great!. thankyou! xWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi there

You are MAJORLY misinformed about the reality!. There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with you whatsoever!. Your labia are perfectly normal and there are sooo many woman who's labia minora protrude as well!. Womens' feminine parts come in all shapes, sizes, colours, etc and each is distinctly and uniquely different!. You shouldn't concern yourself about yours, as everything is just how it should be!.
However, a lot of females struggle with that particular part of their bodies and find it 'ugly' or 'unnattractive' for various reasons!. The fact is, they're worrying for NOTHING! !.!.
The truth is : MOST guys could care less how it looks and MANY of them think all womens' 'parts', regardless of how they look, are BEAUTIFUL!. And that is the truth!. If your boyfriend finds something 'wrong' with yours then he is not worth your time!. And you need to deal with that, thereafter!. But, I can almost guarantee you, that he will be totally fine with your vagina!.

There are only one of two things you can do though :

1) Learn to love and except that part of your body and ACKNOWLEDGE that you are beautiful and just the way you were intended to be, OR, very drastically (and I would say the 'unfavourable option) :

2) Go for reconstructive surgery!. There are many women who do this!. There are surgeries available where you can pretty much get your vagina to look however you want it to!. They can reduce your labia significantly!. I just see it as pointless though!. I mean why change something that doesn't need changing!. I would only say it's okay if the skin down there becomes uncomfortable and affects certain aspects of your life!. I've heard of women who get it done after natural births because they feel their vagina's don't look the same anymore and they have become unhappy with those parts!. And also, some women say that having to large or protruding labia makes things like horse-riding become unenjoyable!. Also, they may be in pain when wearing jeans that are a bit too snug in the 'crotch area'!.

Ultimately, it's up to you!. I hope you choose option 1), but more importantly I hope that you do whatever it is that will make you happy!.

All the best of luck! xxxWww@Answer-Health@Com

Hey babe, It is normal and no guy will measure the vagina to have sex dear!. So there is not need to afraid!. Just go a head and have sex you boyfriend will be happy!. I think you are very depressed so just forget the shape of your vagina and give the way for your pleasure dear!.

If you feel still you need some more help ping me karthikeyan_mhn@yahoo!.comWww@Answer-Health@Com

if you cant tell him about it after 6 months than your not ready to have sex and you dont have an open relationship!. you should see a dr!. if you rellly think its that bad!. every girl is different though and some are larger than others!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Well your obviously not that unattractive if u have have a boyfriend who wants to get in your pants!. All u got a do is get him wanting you and no matter what bet he wont give a **** cos hes so horny!. Never underestimate the sex drive of a man if its gunna feel good we'll go for it haha hence why some guys go out with ugly sluts so long as u know your gunna get some dosent matter about anything else !.!.!.!. no offence womenWww@Answer-Health@Com

Please do not be put off by this!. I'm sure they're wonderful!.
Many men love slabs of fillet steak dangling down there!. Wrong choice of words there I guess!!
Every woman is different!. How would you know that your man wouldn't be enthralled by them!. I was with this lady once who could tie a knot with her labia!.!.!.!.!.I was spellbound by it!! To be quite honest, I think you are blessed!.
Never hate yourself!Www@Answer-Health@Com

Omg!. Relax!. Calm down!. It's COMPLETELY normal, and more common than you think!. There's nothing wrong with you!. And trust me, guys don't care!. They're just happy they get to see you naked lol!. Lots of guys actually think that's sexy ;)Www@Answer-Health@Com

well some guys love it and see it as a turn on, you can also get them cut if they are really long, i think i probably would honestly, but just be happy with your vagina!. he might like to suck those extra lips !.!.!. you never knowwww!. lol!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Many females are just like you so it is normal!. All vagina's and all penises are different so be happy for how you are!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

If he really cared for you, I doubt it would matter to him!. Who knows, he might even think it's sexy! If you're really worried about it and want to change it, maybe you could go talk to your doctor about it!. If it is causing you this much emotional pain!.!.I hate to say it!.!.but there is surgery that can be done, its just an option, but I don't recommend it!. You need to learn to love yourself, because if you don't, who will!? Confidence is sexy, so "strut" what you've got, girl! :)
(plus, the longer the labia, the better it feels! right!?)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Wow you sound a little like me!.
I've always been quite paranoid about my labia!.
Here's what I've come to learn:
- They ARE totally normal!. Forget the pictures of naked women you see in magazines!. They're touched up and photoshopped!. Labia lips come in many many shapes, sizes, and colours!.
- They are nothing to be ashamed of!. Truly!. Explain to him that you're a little self-consious about your 'down-belows', and that way he won't make fun of you!.

Most guys have no problem with it!. I know my boyfriend doesn't!. It's totally, 100% normal!. Don't let it get you down! :)Www@Answer-Health@Com





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