Does it hurt when having sex the first time?!
Question: Does it hurt when having sex the first time!?
i'm almost 16 and i wonder if it hurt when i have sex the first time with my boyfriend !.!.!.!. how can i refuse having sex without annoying him!?!?!?
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Answers:
I never write on these but I felt compelled to write to you!.
It sounds as if you don't want to have sex yet!. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do!. Just say no!. Say you're not ready yet and you want to wait until you are more comfortable!. It shouldn't annoy him that you don't want to!. He should respect that!. If he doesn't he's not worth it!. I made my boyfriend wait becasue it was my first time (even though I was ready) but he's 6 years older so it wasn't his obviously!. He totally respected it!. He just said 'we'll do it when you're ready, there's no rush'!.
But, when it did happen, my first time didn't hurt at all which I was very surprised about but I think it was because I was very comfortable with my boyfriend and relaxed!. If you are not relaxed having sex, it will hurt no matter whether its you're first time or not!. Just tell him to be gentle and go slowly!. Don't be afriad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds as if you don't want to have sex yet!. You don't have to do anything you don't want to do!. Just say no!. Say you're not ready yet and you want to wait until you are more comfortable!. It shouldn't annoy him that you don't want to!. He should respect that!. If he doesn't he's not worth it!. I made my boyfriend wait becasue it was my first time (even though I was ready) but he's 6 years older so it wasn't his obviously!. He totally respected it!. He just said 'we'll do it when you're ready, there's no rush'!.
But, when it did happen, my first time didn't hurt at all which I was very surprised about but I think it was because I was very comfortable with my boyfriend and relaxed!. If you are not relaxed having sex, it will hurt no matter whether its you're first time or not!. Just tell him to be gentle and go slowly!. Don't be afriad!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It only hurts for a couple of minutes but after a while it will start to feel good!. Don't do anything you don't want to do if you're not ready for sex and he really loves you then he will understand!. I personally suggest you wait for that special someone that you know you will spend the rest of your life with :) being a virgin is something to be proud of!. there are other ways to satisfy your partner with out having sex!. But I'm not going to get into detail about that!. Just do what you want but remember there are a lot of disease's these days and you just have to be careful!.
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A sample of coitally experienced college females was utilized to explore the adequacy of several related beliefs that constitute the cultural mythology of female sexual initiation in American society and to identify possible correlates of the subjective experience of pain during women's first intercourse!. The results were that a sizeable minority of the women reported experiencing no pain during their first intercourse, that other subjective reactions (pleasure, guilt, anxiety) were experienced at least as commonly as pain, and that many women acquired considerable non coital sexual experience prior to their first intercourse!. The experience of pain during first intercourse was found to be related directly to young age, conservative sexual values, an expectation of no pain, and negative affect!. The report closes with a consideration of future research needs and the presentation of a tentative model of first coital pain in which non coital sexual experience and qualities attributed to the male partner are projected as indirect influences on first coital pain!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It depends on the size of your labia!. It does for some people, doesn't for others!. As long as your of age to have sex (girlie you better you a condom) then it won't hurt that bad!.
Say no!. If he gets annoyed he's not even a good boyfriend! Guys should NEVER pressure girls into that!.!.!. but I'm sure you have heard that all the time!. You can compromise- take top off but not bottom you will be getting comfortable and he will be satisfied!. Never say yes if you don't want to, and you CAN change your mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Say no!. If he gets annoyed he's not even a good boyfriend! Guys should NEVER pressure girls into that!.!.!. but I'm sure you have heard that all the time!. You can compromise- take top off but not bottom you will be getting comfortable and he will be satisfied!. Never say yes if you don't want to, and you CAN change your mind!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
May, only few first times!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it can but nothin like pushin out a kid so use a condomWww@Answer-Health@Com