Friend trying to ruin my marriage?!


Question: Friend trying to ruin my marriage!?
Im 26 and married for 5 months to my wonderful husband who thinks the world of me!. my good male 'friend' of 10 years, i have a sexual past before my marriage that no one knows about!. i always thought that we would end up together as he was my first 'love' but hes married and so am i!. don't get me wrong i adore the man i married & would never do a thing to hurt him!. none of us have children,yet!. my friend is starting to come on strong with me lately moving my hair from my face, trying to get me to kiss him and other things(you know what i mean)!.i have slapped him and told him to back off or i'll tell everyone!. should i tell my husband just to get it out there!? he is also one of my husbands best friends!. his wife and i are kind of friends i guess, but lately she is treating me like a ***** and has a big competition with me, god knows why!.!.i don't as she doesnt know about what happened!. We both use to be best friends!.
please help on giving me advice on what to do
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Answers:
You should tell you husband!.

If he finds out later, he will be mad at you for not telling him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

maybe u should tell ur husband about it and hopefully he believes u cause if ur husbands best friend is doing it some chances are he wont believe u but believe his best friend but i guess u have to take a chance and tell ur husband i would rather have him tell me rather then hearing from the person doing it!. hope i helped im 18 years old so i kinda know stuff that happens like that i was in a situation like that but not marriedWww@Answer-Health@Com

As long as nothing happens between you are your male friend you are fine!. I would definately talk to your husband and just let him know what's going on!. If your friend can't get the hint that you aren't interested anymore than just stop hanging around him!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

STOP INTERACTING WITH HIM/TALKING TO HIM!.
this could seriously ruin your marriage!. i dont think it's okay to
keep that from your husband as much as you dont like your
friend!. the only reason your ex's stay as your friends
is because they still feel something for you!. i had a bad expierence
like this and trust me, it didnt turn out too good since i kept it
a secret!Www@Answer-Health@Com

You need to avoid this man!. He may or may not still have feeling for you; some men just want sex!. His wife has probably picked up on the attention he is giving you --and that could be the reason she is not treating you badly --or he could have told her something about it!.
Try telling him on the phone to leave you alone!. If your husband sees his behavior toward you, he could begin to doubt your faithfulness!. You must protect your marriage!. It might be wise to go to a marriage counselor -- local church should have someone you could talk to without a fee -- you and your husband may need to go together if a problem comes up because of this man!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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