Sharp stabbing pain during first time sex - Help Pease?!
Question: Sharp stabbing pain during first time sex - Help Pease!?
Today me and my girlfriend tried to have sex for the first time!. We're both 16 and have been going out for 6 months!.I posted this before but didnt really get the answer my girlfriend wanted in the end!. I had someone comment that she wasn't ready, ill clear this up now by saying that we both agreed to do it and i'm NOT pressuring her into it in anyway!. We've done all the basic things like fingering and oral!. With fingering, i could fit 1 finger in and 2 with a little force (didn't do this for her own comfort) but we tried to have sex today and when i was just entering she asked me to pull out of her and burst into tears complaining of a sharp-stabbing pain!? i've looked around and alot of sites talk about this pain but it being bareable!. Tbh from the look on her face it was one of the most painfull things that could happen!. i really need advice!.!.!. so does she, she feels its her fault!. even though i've explained it definetly wont be!.
can anyone tell me why this is happening and what to do!?
PLEASE HELP!.
thanks in advance!.
also, i know about the hymen and all of that!. i realise it is most likely the hymen but im not sure why it is causing thsi much pain!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
can anyone tell me why this is happening and what to do!?
PLEASE HELP!.
thanks in advance!.
also, i know about the hymen and all of that!. i realise it is most likely the hymen but im not sure why it is causing thsi much pain!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Answers:
More oral sex on her first!. Fool around for like an hour and then slowly go into her!. Let her move up onto your penis with her hips!. You are doing missionary to start right!? She can't go on top right now and doggie would be too painful!.
Have you tried side by side sex!? She has a lot more control of the depth you enter her!.!.!.!.
Take it nice a slow!. Sharp pain is never okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Have you tried side by side sex!? She has a lot more control of the depth you enter her!.!.!.!.
Take it nice a slow!. Sharp pain is never okay!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
My hymen was broken because I ride horses!.!. and that can cause it to break!. I didn't notice when it happened!.
I would say that you have to get her really turned on!. I mean, if she's nervous, she will clench up and make everything worse!. Maybe she can try getting on top so she can lower herself down comfortably!.
Also, make sure there is lots of wet, if not, go for lube!. Lastly, GO SLOW!Www@Answer-Health@Com
I would say that you have to get her really turned on!. I mean, if she's nervous, she will clench up and make everything worse!. Maybe she can try getting on top so she can lower herself down comfortably!.
Also, make sure there is lots of wet, if not, go for lube!. Lastly, GO SLOW!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like she is just small!.!.!.
It sounds like she doesn't mastrubate with two fingers if you fingering her with two if not for her own comfort, so, maybe herself mastrubating with two fingers will help her get used to it and doing it herself will probably make her feel a bit more comfortable!.
If that isn't the case, then maybe her body is saying no!.
She doesn't feel completly comfortable in her body yet, so more foreplay, even kissing might make her feel more comfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It sounds like she doesn't mastrubate with two fingers if you fingering her with two if not for her own comfort, so, maybe herself mastrubating with two fingers will help her get used to it and doing it herself will probably make her feel a bit more comfortable!.
If that isn't the case, then maybe her body is saying no!.
She doesn't feel completly comfortable in her body yet, so more foreplay, even kissing might make her feel more comfortable!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
A lot of girl are very small!.!.!.
So its hurt much worse for them!. I never felt a stabbing pain, but burning and just pain i did feel!. Where is the stabbing pain at for her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
So its hurt much worse for them!. I never felt a stabbing pain, but burning and just pain i did feel!. Where is the stabbing pain at for her!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
it will always hurt the 1st time ALOT!!!
ITS GONNA TAKE SOME TIME FOR IT TO GO AWAYWww@Answer-Health@Com
ITS GONNA TAKE SOME TIME FOR IT TO GO AWAYWww@Answer-Health@Com
She's way too tight!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
it could just be that her body is still getting used to having sex!.
But also!.!.!. I had a very painful experience a few years ago!. Granted I was definitely older than 16, but I went to see my gyno and found out it was due to cysts!. Cysts are more or less normal and usually go away on their own but can cause pain when anything is inserted in there!.
I would definitely suggest that if you guys both decide to continue with a sexual relationship that she sees her gyno, especially if it continues to be painful for her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
But also!.!.!. I had a very painful experience a few years ago!. Granted I was definitely older than 16, but I went to see my gyno and found out it was due to cysts!. Cysts are more or less normal and usually go away on their own but can cause pain when anything is inserted in there!.
I would definitely suggest that if you guys both decide to continue with a sexual relationship that she sees her gyno, especially if it continues to be painful for her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Sex for a girl the first time can be very painful!. I know it was for me!. I know the pain that she is referring to!. It does have to do with the hymen!. When you enter her you are stretching the hymen kinda ripping it, i guess!. This can cause a lot of pain for some women!. I would recommend using some lube the next time you two are in the mood!. Just take it real slow!. It might take a few tries but, trust me it'll get better!. Hope this helps!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
It could be because it's her first time!. Usually the first time there is some pain!. It also could be because her body is saying no!. There was a time when I though I was ready to have sex with this one guy and I thought I wanted it, but whenever we had sex it didn't feel good or it would hurt!. I think maybe it was because my body just wasn't ready for it!.
There are times even now where I get a sharp pain, but only when a guy hits a certain spot!. Sometimes they go up too far or go in the wrong way or are just positioned wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
There are times even now where I get a sharp pain, but only when a guy hits a certain spot!. Sometimes they go up too far or go in the wrong way or are just positioned wrong!.Www@Answer-Health@Com