German Exchange Student?!?!


Question: German Exchange Student!?!!?
Well, i seem to be in a bit of a predicament!. ive currently been hanging out with one of my school's foreign exchange students A LOT!. we see each other just about every weekend and we talk a lot when we aren't together!. he is from germany!. we've made out a few times (among other things), and i'm pretty sure he's interested!. he calls me special compared to other girls, and told me im the only american girl he's been with so far!.

but see, a few months ago (october) i got out of a two year relationship with a guy that i was so in love with!. he lied to me, CHEATED on me, and stood me up at homecoming, which has made me basically crazy!.

you see, i want to move on, and i'm REALLY starting to like this exchange student!. but not only do i have the trust issue, but if i actually fall for this guy im just going to get hurt, because he's going back to germany in june, and i simply cant go with him!.

so i guess what im asking is!.!.!. should i let myself fall for him and just see what happens!? or should i cut him off and risk regretting it!? i dont know if i can get hurt again!. its been really rough, but he's been like a ray of light in my dark time!. :( help me pleaseWww@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Hi! I was an exchange student myself, several times, last of which here in the US, where I ended up staying!. You get to know both natives and other exchange students and starting relationships is inevitable!. I've found (also from the life of friends) that when feelings are strong there is always a way!. For long distance relationships or for ways to be together, such as applying yourself for an exchange program!.
If feelings are not strong and you don't want to pursue the relationship after June it will not be that much different than an unsuccessful relationship with an American, would it!? Besides exploring your feelings for him while you get to know each other better, you will also get a glimpse at a very different and interesting world: how do Europeans think!? how is their society like and what do people find important in life!? You will know more than most Americans do on the topic and if that opens your appetite for travel, for enjoying and exploring places and cultures, you will have gained a priceless treasure!. And this guy will be at least a dear and pleasant memory!.
How does that sound!?

Best of luck!.

NellyWww@Answer-Health@Com

GO FOR IT GIRLLLL
seroiusly, other wise you will regret it
go for golddd
hope i helped :)
xxWww@Answer-Health@Com

let yourself fall for him you never know what will happen!.!.!. and good luck to you hun:)Www@Answer-Health@Com





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories