Is all this TOO good to be true?!
Question: Is all this TOO good to be true!?
I have been with my boyfriend 10 years this year!. Im 25 and madly in love with him!. He is an FDNY firefighter and since 9/11 after losing alot of people close to both of us & him having a ceiling collapse on him, He has changed his out look on life & really lives for the moment!. I work in a top hair salon the city & the traveling on the subway is starting to get to me and wear me out, im thinking of getting a job near our place in the Bronx just to be nearer him!. He will sometimes even suprize me by coming to my job in his work gear just to see me!. Last year when we were engaged we broke up for almost 2 months after i lost my dad(who was also a firefighter) i couldn't deal with it and i knew it wasn't fair on him so i broke up with him, But he was there for me all the way through it & never left my side!.We are back together now and he has told me he NEVER wants to lose me again & he really wants us to get married but i thought i needed more time after the loss of my dad, But now i really wanna marry him!. He is amazing to me he treats me like im the only girl in the world & the only thing that matters and will sometimes even sing to me at a party or somewhere!. I fall more in love with him every time i see him & know that i will NEVER leave him again!. I know it may sound stupid but sometimes i cry thinking of how much i love him!. Im just scared of being this happy as my whole life has been a whirwind of drama, being the youngest in a big family with older siblings, alcoholics in the family, fights, losing our baby, most my family are firefighters so i've been to alot of funerals & i also lost my cop brother last year & lost my mom 2 years ago etc!. We have little stupid fights if im annoyed at something but he goes out of his way to make me laugh & not be mad at him, like doing silly things!. How do i go about letting him know that i wanna marry him, i know i should just tell him but he keeps wanting to make it special!. I keep thinking i dont deserve all this happiness!. Help!
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My heart really does go out to you and I admire you for being so strong after all the loss you've had to deal with!. All I can say is grab this man with both hands and never let go and live as happy as you can possibly be every minute of every day and you'll never regret it!. As for asking him to marry you and making it special, he sounds like a really genuine guy, I dont think he'll mind where or when but I would suggest just the two of you alone somewhere quiet - why dont you take him away to a nice countryside Hotel for a weekend!? Oh, and you deserve all the happiness in the world - enjoy it, and good luck and best wishes for your future together!Www@Answer-Health@Com
THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE DONE IN YOUR LIFE, IF YOU CAN SAY YOU ARE PROUD OF THE LIFE YOU HAVE LED YOU DESERVE HAPPINESS AND IF YOUR BOYFRIEND LOVES YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE YOU SHOULD BE THANKFUL NOT SAD MY FRIENDWww@Answer-Health@Com
Sounds like your glass is full girlfriend!. Stop looking for problems!. Live in the happiness!. You have so much to be thankful for!. Why wait!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
your welcomeWww@Answer-Health@Com
just give him a note saying, "i'm ready" that should be enough!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just flat out tell him!! He seems like a really great guy!. You are lucky!!! Best of luck to you!!Www@Answer-Health@Com
then you're lucky!. :] enjoy it!. ( i didn't read all of this too long i'm lazy)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Let him do what he thinks would be special, if he thinks you deserve something special it is just his own personal way of saying how he loves you and that he wants to spend his life with you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
He sounds like a great guy!. He'll bring up marriage again!. If you were engaged before, that means he had proposed before, right!? Does he want to propose again!? If so, don't worry, he'll probably do it soon!.
Or maybe, why don't you propose to him and make it special!?Www@Answer-Health@Com
Or maybe, why don't you propose to him and make it special!?Www@Answer-Health@Com