No orgasms? That's a first...Can women enjoy sex without them?!


Question: No orgasms!? That's a first!.!.!.Can women enjoy sex without them!?
I've made an interesting discovery and I'm curious if any of you have discovered this too!. Most of the women I've ever been with have always had evident signs of having multiple orgasms during sex!. (no faking, it's not that hard to spot)!. Interestingly enough the last two women I've been with have both told me that they have never had an orgasm before!. The first was impossible due to the fact she was actually too sensitive (to the point she hurt - she reports that it's always been that way [she's never been very sexually active]), the second on the other hand loves sexual intercourse but unfortunately is just as impossible (she's been active since a young age)!.

While the 1st, again, is too sensitive, the second I'm thinking is overstressed from school, work, etc!.

What's different about these women and is it actually possible to never have an orgasm!? I mean seriously, the second she might have had one, but you'd KNOW if you've had one!.!.!.Well that's the case us guys anyways!. Any of you women experience this - how can we get past this!?

And the last question - can women enjoy the full benefits of sex without an orgasm or is there a short depression after the sexual high such as men get (i!.e!. blue ballin' lol)!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Research has found that the majority of women don't orgasm every time they have sex!. And there a plenty of women that have never had an orgasm!. Sad but true!. A lot of the problem is that many women are brought up to think of sex as something dirty and wrong so they never find out how it works for them!. Every women is different and has different ways of reaching orgasm!. It helps if the women isn't afraid to try new things and knows her body well!. For a lot of women penetration isn't enough to orgasm!. There has to be friction in the clitoris (vaginal orgasms are very rare) and many positions don't provide this (not even missionary at times - you gotta get things lined up right)!. It takes more than actual penetration for a woman to orgasm, too!. She needs to be turned on in her mind as well - this is why foreplay is so important to women!. It's not like with men where you get hard and are ready to go!. Women usually need more warming up to get to the state of arousal that is conductive to having an orgasm!.
But yes, women can absolutely enjoy sex without an orgasm!. For me, I just love him taking me from behind - unless you use your hands (or his) there is little chance of an orgasm, but there is more to sex than just that!. I guess, as someone that doesn't usually have too many problems in that area, it would be disappointing to never have an orgasm but sex can still be great without it!.

By the way - you can't tell if she's faking!. Not if she's any good at it!. You're only flattering yourself if you think you can!. My (now ex) husband of 13 years always thought he knew when I faked and never once did he actually get it right!. Women that are good at faking know exactly how to make you think it's for real!. I didn't fake it to be mean - he just always insited that I come and sometimes it just wasn't gonna happen!.!.!. oh, and multiple orgasms are pretty uncommon - you've either been rather lucky (or she has anyway) or you really can't tell when shes faking it!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes of course a women always enjoys a good ***ing so give it to her hard and good and keep coming back to her!. Eventually she will stop being so stressed and focus more on the sex and have an orgasm!.

And what are the evident signs of the first women who you say has mutiple orgasms during sex!? because i want to know what she is doing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

well age is a factor maybe her clit is too small to be reached try pulling the Lips out and nibbling gently until she says harder,well im no exspert but id try some thing diff!.yes they enjoy regardless of "cumming",they doit to make us happy and if done right then its fun for both you and her!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Yes Most Definitely, I Barely ever make my girlfriend Orgasm off of sex, but we still do it all the time, I usually will rub her, or lick until she has the Orgasm after Sex, But she still loves the sex part and thinks it feels amazing!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Why u r trying on different ladies!?
Beware of STDs and other horrible diseases like AIDS!.
Abstinance is the best thing if you are not married!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

LEALOFI, YOU REALLY NEED TO GO SEE A DOCTOR AND ASK TO GET YOURSELF SEWED!. EXERCISING WILL NOT HELP YOU TIGHEN THAT LOOSENESS OF YOURS!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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Women do not need to orgasm to enjoy sex!. Men and women feel different things during sex, and they get different benefits from it!. Although a female orgasm is great and is definately a target worth aiming for, its no big deal if you don't hit the target!.

MOST, did you hear that!? MOST women will NOT Orgasm every time!. A small percentage of women do orgasm every time, and yet again a small percentage of women will NEVER orgasm in their life time!.

We come in all forms :)Www@Answer-Health@Com

Only ONE guy has been able to make me orgasm and I always have to have clitoral stimulation!. My fiance can make me orgasm without but rarely!.

I just think that these women haven't been in a long term relationship and/or didn't tell their man exactly what they liked!. It's really all about communication!.

I'm a difficult girl too, but with a lot of patience and a guy willing to learn what makes me tick!.!.!.makes orgasm more likely!.

Yes, we can enjoy sex without an orgasm!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

not all women do achieve orgasm!.
many are happy with sex and enjoy it without orgasm!.

all the time they feel under pressure, its less likely to happen,
we were married 10yrs , b4 i had my first orgasm!. now hubby makes sure i have one every time!.

but often it is down to lack of knowledge, and capability on the part of the man, if she doesn't orgasm!.
most men have sex for their own pleasure, and think a woman will just orgasm by herself!.
it doesn't often happen that way!.Www@Answer-Health@Com





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