Does this mean im not ready? guys or girls doesnt matter?!


Question: Does this mean im not ready!? guys or girls doesnt matter!?
ok this is really embarrassing but at least its better than talking about it with my parents
anyway how come when i play with myself i can only do it for 10 minutes!? sometimes i don't even make it up to 5 minutes!.!.!.does it mean im not ready for sex yet or what!.!.!.!.oh yah and im too afraid to stick my finger in!.!.
no silly answers please
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How long you masturbate doesn't make any difference!. The point is to be relaxing and feel good!. You can't compare yourself to anyone else's story!. Everyone is different!. Finger in or not doesn't matter!. If it's time for it to go there you will know!.

I will also say that women are physically ready for sex long before they are ready for the emotional stuff that goes along with it!. So don't worry about not being able to have sex when the time comes!. You will be able to!. That's how we're made!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Not embarrassing it is life, you are just starting to explore your body!.
Well the time thing does not matter unless you want it to last longer then you need to slow what you are doing but otherwise there is no time rules for it!.
Inserting your fingers is something you will do in your own time some people do and some don't, it is personal choice!.

Again there are no hard and fast set rules for this part of your life it does not come with a manual, you have to work it out for yourself!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

What's the reason you can't go on!? Without some explanation, it's hard to understand what you mean!. Is it uncomfortable!? Are you feeling ashamed!?
But I'd say for sure, if you're afraid of your own body and/or doing things that are normal and healthy, then you definitely aren't ready to have someone else involved! But it's nothing to be ashamed of, you are young and it takes time to learn your own body!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Only 10 minutes, sometimes 5 - is that because it's too sensitive or because you've already had an orgasm!? Or because you feel weird!? Lots of kids feel shame!. Putting your finger inside shouldn't make you bleed if you are gentle and go slow and are wet enough or use lubricant!. It also depends on if you still have a hymen!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

Parents are good with this sort of thing "NOT" Dad will disappear,Mom will be going don't leave me with this!.!.
Mate at 12yrs old you are most definitely,not ready!.!.Enjoy getting to know yourself!.!.Use gels or oils,even the old favorite,vaseline!.!.Do crazy things like turn your pubes,into heart shape,or angel wings,anything that only you know about!.!.Basically enjoy being young & learning about you!.!.Do not be afraid to use your finger,when your ready you will know!.!.
Many years ago,Helen Reddy wrote & sang this,can not remember where though!.!.The song was called I AM WOMAN!.!.Think if you can find this and listen to it,will give you a new outlook on life!.!.
My daughter who is 39yrs old,still plays it!.!.I go visit and its on,say why you playing that crap,i get go home Dad bye!.
Hope i was of some help!?Stay well & happy Enjoy your life God bless!.
PS first sex always bleed,thats life but you way to young for that!.!.Give it time please!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

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lol im 22 and i still can't get pleasure by playing with myself!.!.!.idk i like get nothing from it!?!.!.!.Just because u can't get horny by playing with yourself doesn't mean u not ready for sex!.!.!.k but then again i wouldn't advice you to have sex right!. coz personally i think u alittle to young, but anyway!.!.!.like i was saying if u wanna get pleasure from yourself try to relax and do some fantasizing, to get you in the mood!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

yeah, your not ready yet!. when you have kids and they get older and ask you how your life was!.!.!. what are you going to be able to tell them!. 12 is too young!. stick with your fingers for now!. trust me!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

i was a young motherWww@Answer-Health@Com

Why are you not at school!?Www@Answer-Health@Com





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