Sex question help anyone....?!
Question: Sex question help anyone!.!.!.!.!?
just wondering because im a virgin if you have sex with someone does it hurt and do you bleed!.!.!.!? what do you if you tell your boyfriend your not a virgin and trying to avoid sex not because you dont want to but because he will know any tips!? what think about getting a girl to pop you with a cucumber n a condom not because you a lesbian but because you pop yourself before he does i know were 16 loolWww@Answer-Health@Com
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I would think a cucumber would be far more harmful than a willy!Www@Answer-Health@Com
It doesn't have to hurt the first time!. If you're ready, you really want to do it and you're relaxed with the person you're with then it doesn't hurt at all!. And if you're not mature enough to talk to you boyfriend about it then you're not mature enough to be having sex in the first place!.
Wouldn't you prefer to wait for the right person, i!.e someone that you can confide in, tell him your a virgin and that your nervous and take things slowly!. Using lubrication or buying condoms that are already lubricated might also help but the main thing is that you are really turned on and really want it!.
I waited for a long time with my first boyfriend, he didn't pressure me at all and then one day when we were enjoying oral sex and fingering i was really turned on and just decided I really wanted him!. It worked for me, didn't hurt at all, a little discomfort maybe but that soon turned to pleasure! Good luck! Oh def don't use a cucumber, I've had two babies and still the size of a cucumber would never fit inside me, lol!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Wouldn't you prefer to wait for the right person, i!.e someone that you can confide in, tell him your a virgin and that your nervous and take things slowly!. Using lubrication or buying condoms that are already lubricated might also help but the main thing is that you are really turned on and really want it!.
I waited for a long time with my first boyfriend, he didn't pressure me at all and then one day when we were enjoying oral sex and fingering i was really turned on and just decided I really wanted him!. It worked for me, didn't hurt at all, a little discomfort maybe but that soon turned to pleasure! Good luck! Oh def don't use a cucumber, I've had two babies and still the size of a cucumber would never fit inside me, lol!Www@Answer-Health@Com
Hi there!. Sorry about that first poster, I don't know why some people have to be so rude and vulgar!.
Yes, if you are a virgin, sex for the first time does hurt!. Most women bleed but not all, and some bleed more than others, but it isn't guaranteed that you will!. Don't worry, the painful sex is not so bad that you cannot stand it and it only hurts for a moment and gets easier each time after that that you have intercourse!.
If you are being dishonest with your boyfriend, I would probably first ask, why is he your boyfriend at all!? If you can't trust him enough to tell him private and intimate details of your life, why are you bothering hanging out with him or discussing something as private as your virginity in the first place!? Just something to think about ~
I've actually heard of some girls wanting to take their own virginity to get it over with!. I don't know how I feel about that, but seriously you should (IMO) respect your virginity more than that!. MOST girls who are into their 20's and 30's wish they still had their virginity and waited longer!. Too many American girls nowadays are far too free with their sexuality and thinkWww@Answer-Health@Com
Yes, if you are a virgin, sex for the first time does hurt!. Most women bleed but not all, and some bleed more than others, but it isn't guaranteed that you will!. Don't worry, the painful sex is not so bad that you cannot stand it and it only hurts for a moment and gets easier each time after that that you have intercourse!.
If you are being dishonest with your boyfriend, I would probably first ask, why is he your boyfriend at all!? If you can't trust him enough to tell him private and intimate details of your life, why are you bothering hanging out with him or discussing something as private as your virginity in the first place!? Just something to think about ~
I've actually heard of some girls wanting to take their own virginity to get it over with!. I don't know how I feel about that, but seriously you should (IMO) respect your virginity more than that!. MOST girls who are into their 20's and 30's wish they still had their virginity and waited longer!. Too many American girls nowadays are far too free with their sexuality and thinkWww@Answer-Health@Com
Hey, i answered someones question very similar to them and this is what i said!.!.!.!.!.!.(i just copied it right over!.!.)
what i did was let him finger me so i could get used to it first!.!.he would start off with like 1 finger and worked his way up to 3 before we ever had sex!. also!.!.it will hurt some, but it sounds like you are REALLY freaked about the pain, it isnt bad pain at all!. it may just feel a little uncomfortable since it is your first time, but have him go slow and take it easy, at least thats what my bf and i did the first time!. it did hurt (not really HURT HURT, but was uncomfortable) for the first couple times of having sex!. then it will be fine!.!.!.!.!.everyone is different tho!.
im kinda confused about the whole cucumber part!?!.!.!.i hope you have NOT done that!. let your cherry pop naturally!. he wont think its a big deal, in fact he will most likely like the fact that you are a virgin and he was the first to do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
what i did was let him finger me so i could get used to it first!.!.he would start off with like 1 finger and worked his way up to 3 before we ever had sex!. also!.!.it will hurt some, but it sounds like you are REALLY freaked about the pain, it isnt bad pain at all!. it may just feel a little uncomfortable since it is your first time, but have him go slow and take it easy, at least thats what my bf and i did the first time!. it did hurt (not really HURT HURT, but was uncomfortable) for the first couple times of having sex!. then it will be fine!.!.!.!.!.everyone is different tho!.
im kinda confused about the whole cucumber part!?!.!.!.i hope you have NOT done that!. let your cherry pop naturally!. he wont think its a big deal, in fact he will most likely like the fact that you are a virgin and he was the first to do it!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
I think it's sad that you're looking at sex in this way!. If you're planning on having sex with someone, surely if he's worth sleeping with, you will at least be able to have a sensible conversation with him!. And this business of getting a friend with a cucmber - that's just pathetic!. You and your friend are absolutely in no way emotionally mature enough to be embarking on this sort of relationship!. Leave it a few years until you grow up a bit!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Condom and cucumbeR!?
Lol as if!.!.
Wait til you're ready if your'e that worried abotu him hhurting you!. And if you don't want him to know, grow up a bit, you're in a relationship, if you're not comfortable with him maybe you're not ready for any of this idk!.
Thinking of hurting down tehre makes me seriously giddy!.
No joke, i passed out once from the anxiety while my two friends nattered on msn to me about their first times in a group convo!.
Now they joke about the hymen with me
LOL
oh gosh!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Lol as if!.!.
Wait til you're ready if your'e that worried abotu him hhurting you!. And if you don't want him to know, grow up a bit, you're in a relationship, if you're not comfortable with him maybe you're not ready for any of this idk!.
Thinking of hurting down tehre makes me seriously giddy!.
No joke, i passed out once from the anxiety while my two friends nattered on msn to me about their first times in a group convo!.
Now they joke about the hymen with me
LOL
oh gosh!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Yes it hurts and yes you will bleed!. Cucumber and condom idea is silly!. :-/ If you have to ask this question you are not ready!. Just wait and do it with someone that you care for, and that feels the same for you!. And that you've been with for a while!.No rush :) If he loves you he will wait!. :) Always use a condom!. (Which isn't 100%)Www@Answer-Health@Com
Get some proper advice before you do anything
You might think it's fun now
But when you meet the boy you really love
You will wish you had saved yourself just for him
and for it to be something really special
: )
Take care
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You might think it's fun now
But when you meet the boy you really love
You will wish you had saved yourself just for him
and for it to be something really special
: )
Take care
xWww@Answer-Health@Com
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Sweetheart, nothing "pops"!. Your HYMEN is a thin membrane that PARTIALLY covers the entrance to your vagina, on the outside!. If you try inserting a very large object it may stretch so far that it tears, but nothing "pops"!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Just tell him the truth, if you cant do that pop it yourself you dont need help from a girl unless thats what you want!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
If your used to tampons having a slight sting it should be like that!. Other people are more sensitive and it hurts!. You might bleed if your in your period, but other wise your ok!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
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be virgin till you get married!.
until that enjoy yourself with finger and virtual sex!. will be healthy and harmless
Take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
until that enjoy yourself with finger and virtual sex!. will be healthy and harmless
Take careWww@Answer-Health@Com
It didnt hurt me the 1st time, just gotta be comfortable then it shouldn't hurtWww@Answer-Health@Com
you should try it with your bf a cucumber is much biggerWww@Answer-Health@Com
I don't understand your question!.
Please try and be literate for 20 seconds!.Www@Answer-Health@Com
Please try and be literate for 20 seconds!.Www@Answer-Health@Com