Girlfriend has low sex drive?!


Question: Girlfriend has low sex drive?
I started dating my girlfriend about two years ago and everything was fine and amazing in bed. Then I deployed to Afghanistan and I just got back two weeks ago it was a year long deployment. I came home for leave six months ago and everything was fine as well. Then when I got two weeks ago and we tried to have sex she was telling me she just doesn't need it. She would get Horney but then randomly quit and she says she just randomly feels like she doesn't want it during the middle of it. She doesn't know why she feels this way she is not on any hormonal birth control she is on the copper iud called paragard so we don't think that is it. She does t feel depressed or anything. Any ideas of what could be causing it?

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Depression is not always something you "feel". Have you noticed any other changes with her? It could have affected her with you being gone so long and in such a dangerous place. Or it could honestly just be that she is so used to not having you around that she isn't used to being with you again. Give it time. Try to romance her again like you've just begun dating. Make her feel special and don't make it seem like sex is the ultimate goal. Or try to just pleasure her with no actual intercourse. Hope any of this can be of help! And thank you for serving our country!



Well I think that maybe she just got so used to not having sex. Then with you being gone, she went into depression? You'd be amazed what depression can do to a person. Maybe she just don't feel connected to you as much due to your deployment? Yes there always is a chance that she has cheated but I wouldn't get to that fork in the road so fast, Talk to her and ask what did she do when you weren't there if at all? One thing that Is for sure, be open with her and make sure there is some Communication going on. Good luck to you!!



I'm willing to bet she fell for someone else during your deployment, and she's feeling "disloyal" to the other guy.

NOBODY in my squad managed to get through our deployment without something at least a little sketchy happening at home.



Your girl doesn't have a low sex drive.She has a new boyfriend and doesn't want to hurt you.



u went away for to long so she got used to not doing it with you



One common problem that happens is this. I have been there and done that. You have to figure out what it is first that is destroying her sex drive. If shes on medication like birth control or anti-depressants that is something to think about and do research on. Other then that it could just be stress, maybe the kids, really anything that makes your life stressful can do this and lower the libido.

One thing I tried that seemed to work while I was doing it was exercising. I just felt sexier doing it which kind of boosted my libido. However it wasn't the best solution for me. My friend told me about these herbal enhancers that are made from natural herbs and don't cause any side effects besides having wild sex. She said it's the female version of viagra that you should suggest to her. I had to find out.

I would always have a weak orgasm too (if I had one at all), which after trying this sex enhancer, it boosted them tremendously. I don't get multiple orgasms but I've had plenty since being on these herbs. It's seriously like the best vibrator ride you've ever experienced. These things make me horny all the time, some days I don't even take them because the urge is just too strong.

Don't try out single herbs because they don't do it like the blend of herbs these scientists and researchers pick out. I've tried a couple of them by itself and they did crap. The stuff that I'm on is called Hersolution, at the time I saved money on it at herenhancement.com . Make sure she gets the 3 month supply that way you fall under the guarantee/return policy if the herbs don't work for her, she can return them with no questions ask. I bet they will work though and you won't have any problems. Also if shes on medication of any sort, check out the gel because if your like me, you wouldn't want to swallow any thing that might react with the medications your already on.

Well have a good day and hopefully you solved your problem.




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