LADIES? Foreplay: what happens during a back-rub to switch you from relaxing to !
Question: LADIES? Foreplay: what happens during a back-rub to switch you from relaxing to being arroused?
How much time typically do you like to be "relaxed" before your mate goes for your more "interesting" areas?
Answers:
Yea, about 15 minutes is good but I would also work into it kissing the body. Like towards the end of the "relaxing part" working your way into the "arousing part", kissing up my spine, legs, back of my neck really get me going...same for my guy. Try it out, have fun ;)
I prefer NOT to receive a massage from someone whose mind is already figuring out what their "pay-out" is going to be.
And for the record - one of the best relationships of my life was with a guy who gave me REAL back rubs and foot rubs all the time. Sometimes it led to sex and sometimes it didn't. But to be with a man who actually FOCUSED completely, wholly, totally 100% on ME for as long as I wanted?
That, my friend - is a real find.
I like to get a full rub down before more interesting activities occur. Just enough so that all my muscles are relaxed and I'm calm...then we can proceed to more things. :)
A full rub down would be like 10-15 minutes for me.
Well for me I like long massages. So after about 30 minutes I'm good to go :)
15 min :P