I am 15 year old girl, and ever since my Birthday, I have been masturbating. And!

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im christian 18 year old guy since i was 13 i masturbate twice aday ur normal
i bet ur parents masturbate and rather masturbate then get pregbabt

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hi dear 1).divert your mind on studies,playing,painting,ect .2) go out for a walk with your parents 3) try to make new Friends 4) as a girl you con kill the time at your Kitchen by preparing new dishes 5) VISit Church when ever you feel.

you dont need to stop
you are gonna do worse sins if u dont do it

idk what to say..b ut getting a boyfriend would b an option even though u r too young

I understand that you are worried, but forgive me for saying, it's normal. When you are at such a stage in your life, sexuality and hormones come into play and there is nothing you can really do about that, it's practically a part of growing up, so you will get urges and feel like you want to do it, i can guarantee that every girl/teenager christian gets the feeling. If you really want to stop, then find something else you really like doing! playing sport or reading can keep your mind off it. Now, firstly you don't need to be ashamed, you will only make yourself feel awful! accept that you did do it then let your mind move on, it's something that you will forget and accept in time. Everytime you feel like doing it, take a brisk walk around your room or around the house and have a glass of water and re asses what you feel like, 9 times out of 10 this snaps the body out of its thinking pattern and starts a new one. Even just the sudden rush of blood will do the trick, although it may not work for you. Whenever you really do want to, try the walking or you could even just say no, i don't want to do this, its a sin against God, and maybe even that will help. You could even wear socks over your hands?? it works with nail biting :)
I hope that you get the help you need.

Lexi is wrong, don't listen to her. It's not a sin to enjoy pleasure. You aren't losing your virginity. You are alone with yourself in your own room, doing what you enjoy. It's a sin to just go through life and not experience anything and to do whatever you think God would want you to do.

It's perfectly normal to masturbate. If you don't, you will probably wind up one of those 16 year old girls getting pregnant because you just can't control yourself. But you can control yourself more by masturbating, than not.

There is this show called The Secret Life of the American Teenager, and one of their shows was about masturbating. There is a so-called Christian girl that lost her virginity and felt bad, and didn't want to have sex, so she decided to masturbate, and her Christian mother was okay with it, and everyone around her was okay with it.

Sex is the sin without marriage, so masturbating is okay. :)

You are not the only one who sins, and to top it off, we are all sinners and will sin! Most of the world masturbates, with and without a significant other. The natural feeling feels good and relieves much stress. I won't judge b/c I started around ur time, but you must remember that we will fall regardless of guilt. If masturbating is too guilty for you then pray for it to stop, and wait until you have a boyfriend so you won't feel so guilty. Guilt is a normal feeling when we sense we are doing or did something wrong. We will also sin no matter how much someone tells us it's wrong until it's time to stop and you will know when that will be. You will no longer have an interest in self-gratification.

I'm a Christian also so don't worry too much. =) We all have our own personal struggles with sin.

dont listen to these people that say dont stop. it's wrong and i'll admit - i did it too. but i stopped.

lust is a sin, and it's one of the 7 deadly sins i might add. But what helps me, is that when you get the urge to do it, clear your thoughts. Just think of the color white. picture only white. now think to yourself "what if Jesus walked in right now?" and really mean it. It gets rid of my urges (we all have them, it's how we deal with them that's important).

Don't forget to pray. Remember: Prayer should be your first choice; not your last resort. If it doesnt happen the first time, or the first 10 times, keep on praying. Keep believing and having faith in the Lord that he will help you overcome the urges and the taunting of the devil.

Edit: Do NOT listen to the people who say to "get a boyfriend" Sex is a holy act of love between two married couples. It is a gift from god, not something you go and do with some random fling, that you'll regret later! Get this: Back in the "Bible days", A woman would get STONED TO DEATH if she were to get pregnant outside of marriage, even if she was engaged to the man!

"Through GOD, all things are possible."