Why are boys so shallow?? I am literally crying right now!?!


Question: Why are boys so shallow?? I am literally crying right now!?
Why can't girls that look like this...

http://i928.photobucket.com/albums/ad130…

Ever gets guys that look like this...??

http://i928.photobucket.com/albums/ad130…

http://i928.photobucket.com/albums/ad130…

http://i928.photobucket.com/albums/ad130…


We all go to college together, and I have had a crush on the first guy for ages, but the girls he dates are way prettier than me and have bigger boobs and better bodies than me. And he also typically dates older women than me. Like his last girlfriend was like 28 or something and stunning. And they are part of the "cool crowd" because him and his brothers-(the second guy with the pink glasses and third guy) are pro BMX riders. The first guy also makes heaps of money playing poker.

Anyway, So, I finally approached him when it was just him and his brothers sitting outside campus, and asked him how he was going. And he said "Fine, thanks" with a friendly smile, and then turned to his brothers and said "But I'm not desperate" before they laughed and then walked away. Now just 1 week on from that, he is dating this really horrible person with massive implants he met at a bar, that doesn't even go to college. :(


The platinum blonde with the tattoos


http://i928.photobucket.com/albums/ad130…


I then left, and cried the rest of the day. It is unfair. :(

Answers:

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

Honestly those guys all look super shallow and think they're all that! They're horrible and don't think much of other people. They're probably the kind of kids that grew up getting everything they wanted from their parents and were never told no. Honey you deserve so much better than that anyways! Someone who will treat you right and love you for who you are and even though you don't think you're pretty he's going to find you beautiful and sexy and love everything about you.

I've found that man in my life :)



well hey, some (probably most) are like that, but some aren't. I am a boy, and I think you shouldn't get upset about this. I am saying this because those kinds of guys are people that search for hookers to do every day and won't get anywhere in life. search for guys that you know will accept you more.



He's a jerk. Don't ever listen to him and never, EVER think about him like that again. He doesn't deserve anyone at all. I know you must be heart broken but trust me, he was not worth it at all. Just eat lots of ice cream and/or chocolate. Don't let him think he got to you. Just ignore it. Chin up and smile :)



I don't feel sorry for you.

I feel sorry for their Mother, that would have had to share a house at 1 stage with these douches.



I got a tattoo and regreted it years later, the best way to removet is with a laser

http://www.nuviderm.com



Cause he has standards... oh... and your F**K UGLY!



Because guys like that are shallow, heartless jerks who will never find the right girl. Yeah, they might hook up with a bunch of what they consider "hot chicks" for a one night stand or a relationship that lasts about as long as a snowstorm on the sun, but they're never going to find the perfect one for them because they don't look any further than skin-deep. He's not worth it, sweetheart. Go out and find yourself a great guy that loves you, and don't settle for anything less. You'll find him.



Speaking of shallow - why are you attracted to someone that behaves this way?

Was he a peach to you up to this very moment? Is he interesting and nice and smart and sensitive to the feelings of others? Or is he just a good looking boy that gets you going in the loins?

It sounds to me like you're crushing on people who don't deserve the attention. Why waste your time crying over someone who is a jerk?

Women need to build each other up, not tear each other down. Just because she has implants and doesn't go to college certainly doesn't make her a horrible person. Maybe there are parts to the story that I don't know, but saying things like that makes you sound bitter and jealous - NOT attractive qualities in a lady. Focus on yourself! Find someone who will realize how awesome you are!




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories