ive realised im a sluut, how can i change my ways?!

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that xoxoavri person is a jerk(not the xoxomod) i reported her btw...i read her questions and apparently everyone she knows thinks she's a wh*re too. so forget her, she young and dumb.

ANYWHO- some things we can't do alone. God WILL forgive you and help you through this if you ask.The bible actually says God holds no sins against us, none, when we ask for forgiveness and strength to change.

If you don't believe in God or anything...you could try slowly merging to a new group of friends, getting a vibrator (to at least be safe from stds and a bad reputation), getting a fun hobby to move your focus of attention.

I was slutty. I didn't know it either. Most girls who fool around are looking to simply be liked. Remind urself all guys like vagina, that doesn't mean they like you, even if they act it.

It's good to hear you've recognized this. I started at 13 and didn't accept my faults until 18, when I got pregnant with my son (beautiful four year old) who's father was uncertain.
Very embarrassing :(
Please use my son as ur motivation too.
-Good luck

I thought i was a slut i lost my virginity at 13 but i have only slept with one more person since then and i'm still with that person, you dont need to change you just need to stay single for a while, concentrate on your school work, when you find a nice person who you have been talking to for a while and when you decide to date him keep your legs closed until you have been with him for a while, i mean months not weeks. Then if you feel its right then sleep with him. Make sure you ALWAYS use protection. Also i would advice you to go for sti checks to make sure you have not got anything. Boys will respect you more for keeping your legs closed.

Learn from your past..and look to the future...find activities that you enjoy doing..from after school activities, sports, dancing, art anything that you like to do. That will take up your time and invite your friends to join you and you will also meet new friends. We can't change our pasts but we hopefully learn lessons from it, get stronger, move on to new and better things..I admire your choice to change your life style even if it is just toning down a bit...good luck and best wishes

just dont sleep w anyone and if u do use a condom! im kinda a sllluuuuttt but i was a virgin til 18 and i always use condoms and im an ADULT soi if i get an std or preggo i'll more likely be better to handle it. can you? can you handle a baby right now at 14? can you tell your mom that you have herpes and need meds for it for life? if the answer is no then dont have sex

play hard to get, guys your age like that game anyways

What Mark said is pretty spot on. In addition, when you move forward and decide to respect yourself you should forgive yourself for the past. Don't let your past define you but rather let it teach you lessons about yourself.

PS-I'm not saying that having a lot of sex is not respecting yourself; I'm saying that going after what YOU want is respecting yourself.

you could become a nun, or become a missionary ;-)
Really? Have more self control and dont put yourself in tose situations. Try and work out the precursors as to when you sleep with guys.Doe it involve a lot of alcohol? If so, cut down. Spend more time with your female friends.

14-15? N slept with a lot of guys alredy? Mmm, once a sluut, always a sluut, stay away from boys

You can't change your past, but you can change your future. Just take a shower with really cold water:)

Well you need to figure out why you are sleeping with so many people, and below the age of 16 makes it even worse!

That's easy. Simply don't have sex with "a lot of guys" in the future or do other things you think are "slutty"...

Lord,Stop Sleeping With Guys! & you should trying Closing your L-E-G-S for ONCE!?? :) Simple Huh??

Stop being a slut. Simple.

Keep your ******* legs closed then?

shut your legs!?

just don't have sex?