My boyfriend is allergic to the latex in condoms?!

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They do make latex free condoms, if he's really allergic and not just trying to get you to let him go without. They're a bit more expensive, and not quite as effective, but still better than no condom at all. I can't tell you how many girls end up pregnant relying on the "pull out and pray" method of birth control. Bottom line: You're 16, you don't need a baby or an infection. No condom, no sex.

honestly hun don't think that him pulling out is safe!
if he is asking just for sex and isn't bothered about your worry then he doesn't seem like a good boyfriend, he should stick by your decision and not pressurize you
try and talk to someone about birth control and find out how you can get it
stay strong and be safe!!!

Use a condom. They make nonlatex condoms. Besides, do you have proof he's allergic? It's a rare allergy, does he avoid using bandaids? Those contain latex.

Look, any guy who doesn't mind putting you at risk for his pleasure doesn't care about you. The pullout method is terrible. You might want to think about that.

He's allergic? I've not heard that one before.

Just stop and think for a second about the pros and cons:

Pros: Sex

Cons: Doesn't sound like the bf really cares about you. Your parents might find out. You might get pregnant. If it's your first time don't do it unless you 100% want to.

Is it really worth it?

pulling out is very risky, there's the problem of pre-***. I suggest you read up on sex ed seriously before doing it. You can also get non-latex condoms, lok around for them or ask in a chemist/pharmacist.

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Also thats what i tell my girlfriend!

...give him a nice "hand-job" and tell him to shut up ! ...he's just trying to get his "dick" wet at your expense !

You should read up on this website about whether or not you live in a state that will give you birth control pills without a parent's consent. http://www.contracept.org/minorsaccess.p…

If you live in state that will give you BC without your parent's knowing, get a friend or drive yourself to a clinic. Usually the doctor will give you the pill packets at the clinic so you wont have to get a prescription to go to a pharmacy.

Also they do make latex free condoms, just look around for them. Don't use the pull out method, it's too risky to trust a guy to pull out in time. Pre-come has a low chance to get a girl pregnant, but there is still a small chance.