HELP! SEX POSITIONS AND ANXIETY?!


Question: HELP! SEX POSITIONS AND ANXIETY?
Hey, me and my boyfriend are going to be losing our virginity tonight and i need your opinions on what positions we should do. I am scared! I have watched porn and sex looks painful...
Need your opinion, tips and help! I keep getting scared but i love him and i'm ready to take the next step and prove my love to him!

Answers:

Regular him on top is usually how it goes the first time. Less scary and complicated for your first time. Being a virgin... it will hurt. To be honest with you when I lost my virginity (we actually had to try about 5 different times because it hurt so much) it wasn't really pleasurable the first few times. It is painful. Not overly... it's like a hard pinch kind of feeling... can't really explain it. Your putting something into a hole that hasn't been expanded like that before. Porn I guess looks painful to someone who hasn't experienced sex because the facial expressions lol.
After the first couple times it gets a lot better.
TIP: do not! tense up. if your nervous or it hurts, tensing up isn't going to help at all. Just relax and breath.
AND USE PROTECTION!



No one should ever prove their love through sex. Sex is just sex. People should express their love by being thoughtful and caring towards that person. As for losing your virginity, yes it hurts, but you'll get over it just like the rest of us. And really, don't watch porn for sex advice. That's about the furthest you can get from real sex. Stay with him on top or you on top. You'll learn as you go.



go simple and sweet for your first time. and just work your way up with comfortability. As a girl its likely going to hurt, and if you havn't broken your hymen already (cherry), which can happen from regular activity, you may blead a little, its normal, and if you two really love each-other, you'll get through it. Sex is a fun and natural part f life. Make sure you both wash good before hand, hygene is very important, and use protection.



You may have some pain, but the pain should ease off as you guys get going. Most important thing to do is use protection. Do not have sex with him unless you are on the pill or he uses a condom.



First suggestion....don't look towards porn for ideas on how sex should be. Start with missionary. Use enough lube so it won't hurt as much. Use protection!



having sex doe not prove you love him...making love does




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