I'm really concerned with the way my vagina looks?!

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You cannot compare your vagina to porn star vaginas. Porn star vaginas are photoshopped.

Your vagina is normal.

I'm confused, you said you were married but it's keeping you from a successful marriage? Does your husband not like the way it looks? I'm sure he knew how it looked before he married you, did he think it was going to change? Most men don't really CARE what it looks like as long as they can GET THERE! EVERYONE is different, some women have larger labia than others, that's just the way you are. AND,,,I can't believe that you're married and have NEVER looked at "yourself" in a mirror...REALLY? Anyway, just look up pictures of different vaginas and labia on line, you'll see ALL KINDS - some that look like two separate pieces on each side, some that look like one big piece on each side and some that you can barely see at all...Again...EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT..it would be a really boring world if everyone looked the same!

If you are married - have you asked your husband if he is concerned?

Look - large labia comes with puberty. It is very normal to have lips that poke out a bit or even up to a few inches. The girls in porn try to look 'young' so they tend to favor small lips and some even go in for labiaplasty - trimming of them.

You sound pretty normal to me. In fact - I bet if you shaved the area to show off your 'gifts' your husband would enjoy the area even more. (Trust me on this - we like to see the girly bits).

I waitressed in a strip club for 13 years , so I have seen more vag than a kyno. But I remember the first week I worked I started checking out other chicks things to see if I was normal and I told another waitress one day, hey I think I am missing something down there. That is because I saw a girl on stage who could tie hers into a bow. I just have a little triangle. Think of it this way, guys have big ones small ones and all different shapes, so , well so do we. Don't worry ,if you are you could get a surgery done, but I wouldn't, guys never really look at it, turn the lights out and off you go.

It sounds like any other. In those shows they airbrush and photoshop things to make them more ideal. I'm sure you are perfectly normal. Models and people like that make everyone self conscious about something or other. I'm sure if it really did look strange your husband would have mentioned it. Just relax, there's nothing wrong with you.

Sounds like you've got larger labia minora. This is not that unusual, or any kind of problem. Don't worry about it!

i know exactly what youre talking about cuz thats how i think mine looks..i too think that mine looks different from porn stars, and used to be very self concious, but then again i realized, porn stars are actors. they get paid for how they look and what they do. im pretty sure a lot of other women have vaginas that look similar to ours and if they dont, then i guess were unique! and your husband obviously doesnt care being as he married you. but if its really bothering you i would have a talk about it once with him and explain how youre self concious about it and im sure he'll make you feel better.. i brought it up with numerous people and they said they dont know what im talking about when they see mine and its nothing to worry about. good luck and hope i helped :)
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