Question:
Is my method of masturbation weird and will it affect my sex life?
Hi. My name is Zach. I'm currently a senior in high school and about to go to college. I haven't had sex. I haven't even kissed a girl because I'm worried about how sex life will. I'm hoping that I meet a nice girl in college and that I lose my virginity by the end of my 4 years. I'm worried that the method of masturbation I use will be found as "weird" by any lovers I have in the future. When I masturbate, I usually make a ring with my thumb and my index finger around the shaft of my penis (normally starting at the base of the head). I do this with my left hand. Then I use my right hand and I rub the tip of my penis (around where the line on the side of the penis starts). I move both hands in opposite directions. I don't do this "hard," but I do it enough to make me climax. This method is the best for me. I have try'd jerking off, and it makes me feels good also. It makes me feel like I have to climax, but i just can't reach it with this method. I would always default back to my original ways of masturbation. I don't think my method is "weird" because I have heard some weirder forms of masturbation that people use. I'm just worried that when I do become sexually active with a girl, she will think my method is weird and won't be able to compromise. My biggest fear is that I won't be able to climax when I'm with my partner. Not being able to climax with the girl that you like will do a lot of damage to my ego and pride. I just want to know is my method considered "weird," will girls think it's "weird," and will it interfere in my sex life. Thank you.
Answers:
There is no ¨right¨method to masturbate yourself.
So you have to stop worrying about that, because anyway If u r with a girl u wont need to masturbate while u with her!
So just CHILL and let everything flow!
Sometimes when u men are worried with things like ¨Maybe I wont get to climax¨It usually happens! But not because you werent able, but because ypu were worried and u couldnt focus on the pleasure!
Everything will be fine!
:)
Trust me, when you finally get laid, you'll have NO PROBLEM climaxing. And nobody really gives a sh*t how u masturbate, so I don't think that'll be a problem.
whatever please you most,
just do it the steriotypical way around her untill you are 100% to tell her :)