why do boys feel the need to grab a girls butt or boobs?!
Question: Why do boys feel the need to grab a girls butt or boobs?
like the other day i was standing up putting my books in my bag at school and this boy comes up to me and slaps my butt so i jump and said "ow" it was my first reaction
but this other boy that i walk home with will stand really close to me than grabs it so i just playfully elbow him in the stomach
but tell me does this make me a slut; i use to get offended but now i kind of like the attention of coarse id never tell anyone that but does that make me a whore?
Answers:
No; its very normal. But be careful; because other people willl think your "easy" because you will let guys grab your boobs or butt. So no it does not make you a whore; unless you let them do it frequently and dont do any thing about it sometimes. Yourr Wellcommeeee. Haha
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this is unwanted sexual attention, and it is not ok for these boys to be doing this. if you were in a work place this would be sexual harassment, and they could get fired. you need to tell a trusted teacher what is happening.
and it is not your fault, it does not make you a slut or a whore, and this is not the kind of attention you want to be getting
no we all love attention and so do i. personally guys don't grab my boobs. I mean the girls are off limits. But my butt well they have. Usually they just touch me a lot. And I don't know why. I think guys are a lot more physical than usual. You can tell by the way they stare and lick their lips or hug u and stuff.
ugh guys are just...different
They Are Boys. Lmao. Hormon's, Knt Get A Girl, Show Off, Couldent Get It From They Gf, Think Its An Easy Way Tew Get A Gf, Ect. Like Girls.! Why Do We Look At Boys Butts.! Idkay.! Why Do We Attempt To Grab There Penis.! Tew Look Kute. Or Want Them Tew Do Same. Its A Big Cycle.
because boys are stupid. and immature. studies show that boy's brains do not fully develop until the age of 25. at least.
I recommend making a freaky face at them for an extended period of time if that happens again
or kick em in the nuts. that works too.
raging hormones
you, me, Perkins 7:00 you can grab my moobs and weinner all u want ;)
You will be called a slut and a whore at different times in your life no matter what you do..
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Guys do what they do because we are guys and wired to do dumb things. Even "good" guys can do some mighty dumb things at times. It's just part of who and what we are. Even we have to ask ourselves sometimes, when no one is looking, just why did I do that..???
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Yes, many girls do like the attention and if you show it you will get called names by everyone, at some time. If you show you DON'T like it, the guys will call you names. It's a lose / lose situation here.
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Just do whatever you feel you must do when they touch you. Act like you don't or act like you do..
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As you and the guys get older it WILL slow down a lot tho..
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I would suggest you not let them touch you, it can encourage them to do it again if they get a favorable reaction. Also, that is technically sexual harassment, so you could get them in trouble.
At my HS, the girls reacted poorly to grabbing. One girl in gym class was touched innapropriately and 3 guys were reported and suspended for 3 day. Sicne this is sexual harrassment, it can also become a police thing, as those 3 boys found out.
Me, I was never intentionally touched, only accidentally, in which case you could tell from the guys reaction. Had I been touched intentionally, I would have reported that individual. One guy once dared another guy to touch my breasts, I felt like turning around and verbally reprimanding that individual...I never did that, but to this day I still think I should have.
It is highly offensive in your case; don't tollerate it. Next time don't accept the touching and do nothing or to react as if you don't care. You want to be treated appropriately then you need to let them know that you deserve better treatment. Until then, don't be surprised if they do it again.
Do yourself a favor, wait until marraige to like the attention. Those guys are disrespecting you...they are treating you as an object. They don't see a smart or kind girl, they only see a butt and breasts...a faceless object. Yet, you like that? They don't like you my friend, only the parts deemed attractive.