Getting tighter the MORE I have sex...? Help?!
Question: Getting tighter the MORE I have sex...? Help?
About four months ago I started getting bad camps during sex. I also started not being able to take all of him inside me without it just hurting. Neither of our sizes has changed at all, I haven't gotten bigger and neither has he.
We are not trying anything new. Whether it be positions, toys, or just simply medications and diet. Our relationship has not changed, at least not more than the usual subtle changes that come over time together.
I would like some help if anyone has any answers or suggestions as to why my body is acting like it is getting smaller. Thanks.
Answers:
Pain is a red flag to get your attention. Some little pesky thing is going on and you need to check this out at the doctor's office.
The good news is you can get help and get over the pain and tightness soon.
Mom of four, RN
Have you seen a gynecologist? You need to check to see if anything is wrong--you might have an infection or something. Also, when you get turned on sexually, your vagina swells and lengthens. Might you not be as turned on as you used to be?
well you open up as you become more aroused, is he not turning you on enough or are you rushing into action too quickly? are you pregnant? ask your doctor and try to use lubrication as well and just relax.
you should try using lubes. make sure they are water based. try KY for him and her, it adds exitement for you.