Self Confidence issues?!
Question: Self Confidence issues?
This question is a bit weird. (please don't report me if i go a bit to far into detail).
So anyway, my younger sister and I share a room. (she is 10 and I am 12). So of course we see each other naked when we are changing our clothes and stuff. She hasn't hit puberty at all. I have a good amount of pubic hair, and breast buds. She is always saying that my "junk" looks like a hairy scary monster. She says that it is the most UGLY thing EVER! She says that her "junk" is pretty. Nice and smooth and that it will NEVER look like mine. NO MATTER WHAT! I'm trying to tell her that it WILL look like that when she gets older, but she's just ignoring that.
I know that this shouldn't hurt my feelings but it does! I just laugh at it, but I am really hurt on the inside.
What should I do?
Thanks!!
Answers:
Awww, don't be hurt! There's no reason to be upset because EVERY girl looks like that down there. She'll realize it when she matures. If it really concerns you, you could always shave it, or change in the bathroom privately! Good luck hon!
Let her have fun while it lasts. Mark the time and date, and even record it if you want (ha ha, jk jk.) The minute she starts to develop, you can tease her about it too, and say "I told you so".
It a part of puberty that you can really avoid. If it bothers you, you can always trim and or shave it.
you know yourself its normal and ever woman's vagina is different, so don't worry about it sticking out more.
if it really bothers you trim your hairs but don't start to shave it your to young to start doing that and believe me its hard work.
shaving makes it grow back thicker and faster.
A lot of girls shave down there now, you could try that.. just with the razor that you shave your legs with though. Just be careful!
p.s. It gets really itchy when it grows back, so don't be concerned if you decide to take this route :)
Shave ;)
Could you change in the bathroom ?