Do you know if It would hurt her?!
Question: Do you know if It would hurt her?
Answers:
Well it kind of depends.
at first it will be a little uncomfortable. Just go in very slow and if she starts saying it hurts too bad pull out
When you first have sex if she was ever a gymnist, cheerleader, horseback rider. or did any kind of flexing she might have tore her hymen already this means she will not bleed or hurt as bad as other girls. The hymen is the thing thats called the cherry when people say they pop your cherry.
But if she has never done any of these things before you will most likely tear her hymen. There will be a bit of blood so dont say ew or be shocked. that will make your girlfriend uncomfortable just get her toilet paper or a paper towl to clean it up.
But just make sure to use protection!
Sex should NEVER hurt!
The idea that it hurts is myth, although it's possible it doesn't have to be painful. If a couple don't understand why pain may happen it means they can't avoid it, and often if a girl experiences pain she'll tollerate it thinking it's normal, then tell others the myth is true based on experience rather than facts, thus the myth goes on, and thus why knoweldge is so important. If it hurts it means something is wrong, you need to stop and address that problem, not carry on hurting her.
A virgins body is no different to a non-virgin, thus there is no reason for sex to hurt due to physical reasons like this. The vagina doesn't need to 'loosen' as some people believe because when aroused it naturally opens, lubricates, relaxes and almost doubles in size, a vagina can handle a baby so can easily take a penis as it's elastic so it will stretch then go back to original size. If a couple are inexperienced they may not understand this or they will rush foreplay to get to the main event, but foreplay makes sure penetration is possible and makes sure it's pleasurable. Lubrication helps too if not wet enough, it's not a replacement for foreplay but part of safe sex as if penetration is difficult it's not only painful but can damage the vagina so increase risk of STI's. If a virgin still has her hymen in tact this can cause pain during sex, this is rare but if the hymen is in tact it may tear or stretch when you have sex - this can feel painful, but it just as likely to feel pleasurable or not be felt at all - if her hymen is in tact any pain can be prevented by stretching the hymen slowly over time and being sure to take things slowly and gently when you do have sex.
Emotions are a huge part of it too, many girls may not be ready to take that step or may not fully appreciate what it means, it's something you can't quite grasp until you're had the experience, so they may find it hard to relax. It's also true that if a girl expects pain she will tense up so making penetration difficult. First time with any new partner can be awkward, and sex can change a relationship, so trust and respect are vitally important to make sure even if sex isn't as expected it is still not a terrible experience. Talk to your partner and educate yourselves, she should know that if it hurts she can ask you to stop without feeling like there's something wrong with her or that she's letting you down, make sure she knows you want her to feel pleasure not just tolerate pain to try to make you happy - no good boyfriend wants that. I'd recommend both look at these articles;
Ready or Not? The Scarleteen Sex Readiness Checklist - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/boyfri…
From Ow! To Wow! Demystifying Painful Intercourse - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/pink/f…
First Intercourse 101 - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexual…
A guide to loosing your virginity - http://the-clitoris.com/f_html/female_vi…
My wife said her first time did not hurt. She lost her hymen to tampon use years earlier so there was no blood. The key is to have a lot of foreplay make sure she has a lot of natural lubrication and is relaxed. If she still has her hymen there will be some pain. If she has lost it to something like tampons she is still a virgin until she is penetrated and if there is enough foreplay and lubrication there should not be much pain.
Yes it will, if it is your first time and you don't want to hurt her as much you need to do alot of foreplay. Make sure it feels good for her, this will produce more wetness and open her vaginal area if she relaxes. Take your time!
yes sex always hurts a bit the first time and maybe a few times after, you just have got to be patient and talk her through it. Its less stressful for her when you're consoling her.
yes,it would if she is still a virgin,she will also bleed
yeah it usually does hurt the first few times
Hah, yeah. It's not a pleasant feeling the first time.