breasts and areolas..?!


Question: Breasts and areolas..?
I'm 20 years old and I'm having a lot of self confidence issues with my breasts. I'd say I'm a pretty attractive girl, about 5'6 and 125 pounds. The only problem are my breasts.. I'm a 34D. I feel so self conscious of them and feel like I can't wear certain clothes because they seem to sag more than other women my age. I also have large areolas which I find extremely embarrassing. So embarrassing that when me and my boyfriend have sex, the lights have to be turned off.. I want to feel sexy and hot when we're being intimate but that's hard to do when all I can think about is how gross they look. I know it shouldn't be a big deal and that I should love what I have, and some days I actually do, but then I'll see someone with perky ones and I'll just get jealous and think my boyfriend deserves someone who's more comfortable with themselves and has better looking breats. I just wanted to get anyone's opinion about how I should overcome this.. Should I look into a areola reduction/breast lift surgery? Or something else? I'm at a loss so if anyone could help I'd be very grateful! And no hurtful comments please..

Answers:

Some comments on the key sentence in your question:

I know it shouldn't be a big deal
-- Right, it isn't

and that I should love what I have,
-- Yes you should

and some days I actually do,
-- Great, keep that thought

but then I'll see someone with perky ones and I'll just get jealous
-- Here it is all about you are harsh on yourself because you think you need to compete with other women; despite they are not anywhere near your guy.

and think my boyfriend deserves someone who's more comfortable with themselves and has better looking breasts.
-- I think your boyfriend will appreciate if you are more comfortable with yourself. Try some sheer lacy lingerie and a dimmed light. That way without being too uncomfortable for yourself you give your guy what he deserves.

As for the areolae: very pleasurable for the guy to kiss a girl there, the more to kiss the better?



I love large areolas. Seriously.



It's funny that men complain about their penis size and women about your breasts. I think you are getting carried away with your breasts size. My wife was a 36d and I never heard her complain accept the time her best friend's fiance was staring at her when she was wearing a two piece. I can't believe you turn off the lights during sex with her boy friend. I'm sure he likes your breasts. For God's sake leave your breasts alone and have a talk with your mom.



I'm 20 as well and wear a 36G. I'm also self concious about my areola size and the 'perkiness' (or lack there of) Don't bother with surgery because the effects don't last as long as you hope. I would suggest getting a really sexy bra and just wear that during intimacy if you're that uncomfortable. Fredericks of hollywood have very sexy bras for around $20usd. That's the cheapest I've found in my size since plus sized store don't carry band sizes small enough and the only other choice is Nordstroms (not worth $65 bucks, sorry girls, you'll just have to sag a little.) :)




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