why didn't it go as planned?!
Question: Why didn't it go as planned?
Right, today me and my bf were planning on having s*x for the first time, we had foreplay for a about an hour, and think that may have been the problem. The thing is when he tried to find my hole, he couldn't find it, and i don't think I can have s*x becasue I am too small. Also I think due to too much foreplay, he wasn't as turned on, and wasn't h*rd enough, and in the end it was getting a bit awkward and we were soon turned off. It is also the same when he tries to fi*ng*r me, it is kind of painful, or maybe he thinks he knows what he doing, but doesn't if you know what I mean. but (I have fingured my self and I am tight, but it doesn't hurt.) evewn when I am turned and ready (if you know what I nean) so what shall I do, I don't want the same thing to happen next time?
Btw we are both 16 and we both want this.
I could also tell that he wasn't turned on when we were about to do it, is that the condom kept slipping off, I think it is because he was hard for nearly over an hour
Btw we are both 16 and we both want this.
I could also tell that he wasn't turned on when we were about to do it, is that the condom kept slipping off, I think it is because he was hard for nearly over an hour
Answers:
you might feel a bit tighter if you're not 100% relaxed. try just going with the flow, you don't need to have an hour's foreplay, go for it when you both feel very aroused. vagina's lubricate themselves when getting ready for penetration and without this it'll hurt and cause a lot of friction. you can also use lubrication (not Vaseline) you can get a durex branded lube which doesn't effect the condoms in anyway.
hope this helps x