Was this almost an orgasm?!


Question: Was this almost an orgasm?
I've never experienced an orgasm but sometimes during sex (only certain positions) I get this REALLY intense feeling that gets too much that I have to stop. My boyfriend thinks if I keep going that I'll get an orgasm but I just can't. It's like... it gets so intense that it hurts. But like a good hurt. I don't know how to describe it. I've tried my hardest to keep going but I can't.

He also says when, in those certain positions, when I feel that feeling, he can feel like a small bump or something on the front side. Is that the G-spot?

So my question is, is that an orgasm that I'm about to have and how can I keep going without stopping?

Answers:

Yes I believe that is an orgasm you are about to have. When I first started having sex I would have to stop because it was so intense I couldn't tolerate it. To me it felt kind of like standing under a freezing cold water hose all of a sudden, it was so intense I was tightening up every where and couldn't really catch my breath. I think this happens because at first you are so new to sex that the pleasure is overwhelming. If you keep trying over and over then what will happen is you will get a little desensitized to the pleasure so you will be able to *** and once you do you will want to do it over and over. Toys really help, like a vibrator. I also think that is your g spot he is hitting. I have the same experience when my BF gets going and I can feel him hitting that spot it makes me orgasm ... its like an couple inches on the upside of my va-jay-jay and its soft there.

So good luck, keep practicing and eventually you will have an orgasm, I'm certain of it!



MissMorgan has his the nail right on the head. You are almost there.



im a doctor and if you have sex everyday it will get better



tell him to not stop no matter how much you beg him



You are on top and in control and that is a good thing really it is. Now if that feeling you was having felt something like you had to pee and then just wanted to stop then I would say yes you was about to have the big O. Most women are not able to have one from intercourse alone and need more clitoral stimulation. I suggest that you can try it yourself and find out if you can in fact have one (squirt) sort of like when a guy ejaculates. Once you have had one on your own then you know what is about to take place and when you and him are having sex and that same feeling comes up you will be ready to let it go. You are not going to pee on him but let go of your kind of ejaculate or squirt, yes there may be plenty of it. If you don't feel like doing this on your own then have him help you out. Go to the bathroom before hand so you know you do not have to pee. That is often a misconception women have, they will pee on him or self.




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