help? I'm trying to get some reassurance that I'm NOT pregnant.?!

O.K., Hon, I will give this a shot. Are you saying that you were giving your boyfriend oral sex and wet your fingers with your vaginal fluids to moisten his penis before the fellatio? And your question is if you had the pre ejaculate on your fingers even if there was no penetration could you be pregnant? At least I think that is what I am reading. The chance of you being pregnant from that is very slim. I am not going to say it isn't possible, just slim. If this incident occured in the last three days, play it safe. Go to somewhere like Walgreens or Walmart and purchase a morning after pill. You will have to ask for it at the pharmacy counter. I am not trying to lecture you as a grown-up, or preach like your mother would, I am just going to pass some information on to you that will help you in the future. Every local health department has a family planning department. They base their fees on a sliding scale, so if you don't make a lot of money, you don't pay a lot of money to be seen. If you still live at home with mom and dad or have no income their services are free. Make and appointment. When you have the appointment it will be just like going to the ob/gyn. They will ask you about your sexual activity, do a pap smear, and ask you how you would like to handle family planning. You have several options available. You can have them put you on the pill, you can take a shot every three months, (you won't have to worry about pills with this option, and your periods may stop or be lighter, but as long as you don't miss an injection they are 99% effective.), or you can stick to good old condoms and spermicide. The department of health will give you your medication then and there, as well as a supply of condoms. They will reccomend that if you are going to use the pill to use a condom too. Personally, when I was a teen and became sexually active, I took the shots and used spermicide. I didn't get pregnant until I went off of the shots at 25. If you follow one of the above plans, you are taking all of the precautions you can against getting pregnant. Let me address this one last thing. Just because you are taking the pill, the shot, or using condoms and spermicide does not mean you are protected from sexually transmitted diseases. Make really sure you want to ride bareback with the person you are with because you take a big risk every single time you do. And that "old wives tale" about if you are having unprotected sex with your partner, you and he are having sex with every person either of you have had sex with, and all of those people that they have had sex with. Well, it's not an old wives tale. Watch 6 degrees of seperation and you will see what I mean. As long as you take care of yourself, take measures to protect yourself from pregnancy and STD's, you should be able to lead a very satisfying sex life should you so choose. I hope that I have helped you. Please feel free to e-mail me if you have any more questions. Lydia

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He would actually have to go inside of you to get you pregnant, and if you haven't had sex i would say the chances of that would be slim to none. i think you are freaking out for no reason and i wouldn't start to worry until you are at least a week late on your period, if it's on a normal cycle.

Chances of you being pregnant from that. They are so slim they're practically anorexic. You CAN gett preg that way but you would have to push your fingers right inside. Sperm dont live that long and its a pretty long way lol. I wouldnt worry. But if you are sexually active now I would go on some birth control just to be prepared. Its nothing to be embarrassed about.

sperm dies when it hits the air.. the only way to get prego is if the sperm ACTUALLY went inside of you