Need bullying help please!?!

Why hasn't the teacher done anything about this? Why haven't your friends stood up and told this jerk where to go? Have you told your parents?

I'm sorry, but your ''friends'' are participating in bullying type behaviour, too, as is your teacher. By standing to the side, and just letting this happen, they are *just as bad* as the person doing the bullying. I would dump those friends as quick as I could, if I were in your position.

You need to tell an adult. This *is not* ''tattle tale'' or ''dibber dobbing'', seriously, you are 16 years old, too old for that childish BS. Take a stand, get the adults on your side, and get this asshat kicked out of your school, before he starts picking on other girls.

The problem isn't with you, sweetie. The problem is his own self image, and his own ego. Obviously, by lashing out at you, and trying to bring you down, he can be blissfully ignorant to his own weight problems, his own appearance, his own self worth. Bullies have low self esteem, and that's why they carry on the way they do. Remember this, and don't let it get you down. You are a strong woman, and empowered woman, and you should surround yourself with like minded women.

I am in no way making excuses for your weight issue, obviously you know this is something you have to change, but not because some a.s.shole is trying to guilt you into it. Fighting the bullies should come first and foremost, and once they have been taken care of, you can take care of yourself.

Tell a respected and trusted adult, tell as many as you need to to get this little piece of s.h.i.t into major trouble, and change your friendship group. They are just as bad if they can't get the backbone to stand up and give you a hand.

Best of luck, darl, I really, really hope you can get him sorted out.

I'm a 21 year old female who does not condone bullying, *no* *matter* *what*, even if I don't know the person being bullied from a bar of soap.

Well im over weight too and this tall girl would always bully me she wouls call me fat she would tell me "hows jr" as if i was pregnet and one day when she told me that i told her "hows the air up their big bird" after that she asked if i want to fight her(i have been know to puch like a man and she knew it)and i said ya and she chickend out now everyone knows she chickened out and she leaves me alone.

p.s. Honestly idk how this will help you.

(1)Tell him yes I may be overweight but I can lose it in a month or two, but you're ugly, and that will never ever change!
(2)Or you can laugh and use his insecurity which is like fighting fire with fire, Just say if you come up with a different one let me know so you can have some pride in some new comebacks. Then laugh in his face.
(3) Punch the guy square in the face. He will never bother you again. If you come to my school, they would not get you in trouble...

I am a 6th grader, (but I know these things)

Tell him you're aware of being over weight that he need not lecture you on what you are aware of. try a simple diet and you will feel positive.

If you let him know it bothers you, he will continue to bully you.

tell the highest authority figure in your system that it is inappropriate behaviour and you will tape it to the local press if they cannot stop it. I am serious, that is a working method here in Texas. if you will get into trouble for boinking HIM in the head with your english book. then take it to the next logical Level . No school wants to have a "Bulling inquiry at their school.
I If you have the availability of a recording devise or a cell phone that can be on to an ADULT while he is involved in this Verbal act of name calling then do that TOO. cell with 10 second video/voice will be good to take to the authorities also.
0R you could resort to Violence .
lady's hat pins were used in the early part of the last century for keeping a civil tongue in the MACHO men of the time. they were about 5 inches long and made a very small hole into the medulla obbligato[Back part of the brain], undetectable at that time., almost instant , Death, . the receiver Froze in the position until Rigor set in
.A piano Wire [guitar string] simple loop around the neck and pull real fast and hard then just drag the body to the nearest Person of Authority and release the loop. [be care full this may sever the head] de cap a tate the bully and then you would go to prison for corpse de vandalism.
So give it some thought. and Yes the local TV reporter Would be interested IF an Adult backed your Play.

Been there done just that and nailed the LMFB to a barn wall. well his picture made it to the 6:00 news and got him Physco analized for 90 days. I also had an adult with me when walking to and from school until he apologized to me and now we are friends and even go mall raiding on our Boards together.