One of my best friends Touched me?!!?!
Question: One of my best friends Touched me?!!?
so next day My school friend and I were walking home. he went to his house and got a drink then walked down to a bike path were no one was then he said "i'll give you a ten second head start" and i laughed cause i thought he was joking. then he grabbed me and we had a little struggle and i was laughing cause i thought he was joking but then he pinned me down and pulled my skirt up and pants down!! and i was hitting him. he rubbed me once. he let me go and then i felt so sad and ashamed. i didn't know how to react. he kept saying "forgive me" and he kept hugging me and joking ( i think) that's if i don't forgive him there is always my breast to expose. i let him walk me home and we chatted like normal because i was trying to forget what happen. i'm 15 and he is turning 16. i have a boyfriend and he (my friend) has been saying he loves me. but me and my bf are really tight.
i feel like i cheated.
i still like my friend as a friend but hardly as much.
and i am so confused.
i feel bad because of my reaction to what happen isn't normal, like i should of screamed or something. :( i don't know what to do, what should i do?
Answers:
First, it's not really smart to bet about touching your privates, in case the other person is actually serious. Second, your friend was touching you without (as it seems from reading your description) your permission. This could be considered a form of sexual harassment if you want to take it that far (I doubt it though). Probably the best course of action is to leave it alone for a while, make an allowance since he IS your friend. If it happens again though, you should definitely tell an adult.
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I would suggest telling your mom or dad, even if it's uncomfortable for you. You don't deserve to be treated like that by ANYONE, especially a friend! You probably reacted the way you did because you were in shock. Please tell an adult, because he could possibly try something like that again.
well you did tease him and he did stop at 1 rub so I guess no harm was done , if you tell him it made you unconfortable and dont want it to happen again, he should respect your wish. That is if he wishes to keep you as a friend