Why does nothing turn me on?!


Question: Why does nothing turn me on?
I'm an extremely introverted 20, almost 21, year old female virgin, I'm saving myself for marriage. I'm either in school all day or at work all day, and during my free time, I'm doing homework. I read that masturbating helps to relieve stress and is also healthy, but I just can't do it. I've tried fingering and the shower head suggestions, and I refuse to spend money on a vibrator. I'm extremely by-the-book about things, which might not be helping..

I had a boyfriend for around three months last year, but then I found out he was clinically insane and using me to try and get in bed with his cousin.. That left me emotionally dead for the better part of a year. But even then, his touching or kissing didn't do much for me.

There are guys I find attractive, sure, but no more than schoolgirl crush level. I'm very healthy other than my lack of sex drive. Thoughts? Should this concern me?

Answers:

well trust me things will turn you on. and if you are waiting for marriage you shouldn't be worried about what turns you on. if your really curious then have a guy kiss your ears or your neck gently. find a gay guy to help you with that. that's where my first kiss came from and it has always helped me when i'm in a pickle.



No probably not, you just gotta find what goes for you. And i know someone who was the same way. Maybe watch alil porn if it dont work when you find that special person it will work (: I am sure.



It depends on the person, and you ARE very introverted after all...
You just have a low sex drive and maybe you weren't just exposed to sexual things yet. Like, I started watching porn when I was 8/9 and my sex drive is through the roof all the time (I'm only 16 as well).
I suggest you read erotic literature... I think that will suit you, especially if you have a good imagination.
Fingering does not work for me because you're supposed to stimulate the clitoris. You probably were doing the shower head thing wrong.

Oh yeah and porn probably (or most likely) won't work for you since porn disgusts most women, even me because it's designed for males.




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