PCOS I'm a big fat cow. And cant not bare children. Why am I trying to be p!


Question: PCOS I'm a big fat cow. And cant not bare children. Why am I trying to be positive?
It's already devasting than I can not bare my own children and now
I can't even have a period for Christ sake... Couldn't I at least a a period.
I'm not gonna go on about how unfair life is because we all know that.
I have gained all this weight because of my depression.
Some of us no more than others. I am so upset right now and ready to burst in tears.

No man will ever marry me so why not give up now?

Answers:

Firstly, a man worth having a relationship with or marrying, will not care about the 'outside you'.
They will fall in love with the person you are on the outside.
Also, there are many men that like 'larger ladies'.

May be join a dating site or similar.
There are also, many men that can't have or want children.

Also, there is adoption and fostering, if you want to go down that route. And you can even do that on your own. There are so many children, that need a loving home.

Are you on any medication for your depression?
If not, see your Doctor for help. And if you are, then changing your medication may be an option to look at.
You have to love yourself, before you can expect someone else to love you.
perhaps, councelling will help you.

Try to go out and enjoy yourself. Take up a hobby or activity you enjoy.
Fill your life with other things. We never know what's around the next corner.

You certainly can't give up. That's the cowards way out and I'm sure you have inner strength to overcome these issues.



There are many men who do not want children, or who cannot have them, so I would not tell yourself you will never find a man to marry. You can look at the positives that you will not have to put your body through pregnancy, you do not need to put hormones in your body to prevent pregnancy, you can adopt a child and save their life, and you will not be adding to the world's overpopulation problem.

If you cannot have children, then why would you want a period? lol. Everyone hates having a period and many would consider that part lucky. Just look at the positives and you will start to feel motivated to get out there, get healthier, and live a good life.



PCOS is a manageable problem. There are hormonal treatments available to help deal with hair growth and difficulties getting pregnant. There are medical and non-medical approaches to dealing with this problem. Here is a website with examples of therapies that one hospital offers. http://www.uchospitals.edu/specialties/pcos/treatment.html

Don't give up! Maybe a good first step would be for you to go see a professional counselor about how you feel right now. It might be difficult for you to take positive steps while you are feeling the way that you do.

http://www.uchospitals.edu/specialties/pcos/treatment.html



Don't talk stupid, many women have this news and get on with life. It's just pot luck, there are many other ways of conceiving children these days, so all hope is not lost. As for your comfort eating stop it now before it gets to far, join a healthy eating group to loose the Weight you've gained, the support of others will help you loose those extra pounds and you will meet new people and it will get you out and about and allow you to socialize.

I can assure you there's someone out there for you and you have plenty to live for, and in the future when you have your own child, you'll regret ever typing this.

Good luck and stay positive!



you know there are men out there who don't want children, but do what a life partner. and many of them would consider the ability to nut inside you without fear of getting you pregnant a major plus!

I'm one of those guys, and I like thick women, but not fat!!




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