Need help fast. Embarrassing. ?!


Question: Need help fast. Embarrassing. ?
I am going to have sex tonight for the first time. Does anyone have stories about losing there virginity? My bf thinks i have had sex 5 times with my ex but I'm actual a virgin.

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If I were you, I'd fess up to your boyfriend. The first time, you generally want the guy to go slower and be more gentle. If he thinks you've already had sex 5 times, he may not be as careful and you might end up in some pain. This is something you're going to remember, so you don't want it to be super uncomfortable! If he's worth losing your virginity to, he's not going to care whether or not you're a virgin. Good luck!



You've got to tell the guy that you're a virgin. When he asks why you lied, tell him because you were embarrassed. But if you get down to it and he thinks you're not NOT a virgin, he will be unhappy with the experience and you will be unhappy and disappointed. And that's not supposed to be for the first time. Tell him. If he becomes adamant about it or doesn't care to understand you and your feelings, then let him go > he's not worth it.



It's better that you tell your boyfriend so he knows to be gentle and go slow and he wont be expecting someone with a lot of experience. Personally, the first time for me wasn't that bad. Yah it hurt but it was bearable. And my hymn didn't break til the third time i had sex but you should still take precaussions and lay a towel under you or something.

Experience



You should tell your Boy friend the truth. The reason? Because, you bleed when your hymen is broken, the thing that stays intact until loss of virginity. So, its going to be obvious when your hymen breaks and blood is every where, that you are well WERE a virgin.



I dont think you should loose your viginity to him, if he doesnt know the truth.
Its kinda not fair on him :L but yeah. its kinda based on a lie.
If you told him you were a virgin, it would benefit you more because he would be more gentle and comfortable.



Stick a dildo down there and you will loose your virginity because your hymen will break, rest for a while and then enjoy (almost) painless sex! :)



it hurts quite abit
id tell you bf that your a virgin otherwise he might not be as gentle as he needs to be if he thinks that your not virgin :)



If he thinks you have done it before he might be rough with you. So just come clean and if he asks why you lied just say you where too embarrassed to tell him.



someone needs to watch some porn to learn a thing or too because he thinks your experienced so u need to bring it



Well.. it hurts :/ x
Plus he'll work out your a virgin because it hurts you so much on ur first time x

Experiance




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