How can I lessen the future pain?!

Question: How can I lessen the future pain?

I hear that sex for the first time can be very painful for the girl. Mostly because her vaginal hole is tight and has never expanded. Don't get me wrong, I dont plan to have sex for a very long while since I'm still a teenager. But I cant help but be afraid when that time comes. Is there any way that I could make mine wider so it wont hurt as much when the time comes? And just out of curiosity: how much does it hurt and what does it feel like when the guy "enters"?

Answers:

Allot of if depends on the type of hymen that you have. Honestly, my first time didn't hurt at all. I was with a guy I'd been with for a while so we'd fooled around allot with hand sex. Like for months. Lots of foreplay and a condom ....I was fine.
Everyone's experience is different. It doesn't have to hurt though. Personally I'm a bit more concerned about the whole giving birth thing. I'm not pregnant and actually right now I'm single. But you know if I ever decide to have kids in the future....there's just no way that giving birth doesn't hurt. Some women tear! (shudder*)
Anyway back to your question. There was this one time with a guy that was really well endowed....that time hurt like Whoa-unbelievable. Felt like a million zillion tiny little tears all over inside my vagina. Like death by a thousand paper cuts only without the fatal part. We decided it wasn't going to fit right then so we stopped. I felt completely fine after. The during was not good though.
The best advice I can give is:
#1→?Lots of Foreplay (fooling around until your heart is beating fast, you're breathing heavy, and you're really wet.)
#2→?One of the two of you needs to focus on your Clitoris*.
#3→Use condoms
#4→Use Lubricant. Apply before initial entry.
#5→Know what feels good from when you're by yourself so that you can teach it to your guy. In other words, masturbate.
I'm putting some links to sites I've found helpful below. Hope something helps!

Hymens↓
http://www.healthystrokes.com/hymengalle…
The Internal Clitoris↓
http://susiebright.blogs.com/susie_brigh…
Female Sexual Response(Why Foreplay is Important)↓
http://www.womenshealthmatters.ca/centre…
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/2067.…
First Time Sex Stories from Women↓
http://www.avert.org/first-time-sex-stor…
Sex Education Online (Birth Control & Diseases)↓
http://teensource.org/pages/hookup/baby-…
All About Vaginas Blog↓
http://www.myvag.net/masturbation/2/

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