What the HELL happened lastnight?!
Question: What the HELL happened lastnight?
Afterwards I read the bottle. It was massage oil not lubricant. I thought it didnt matter? It apparently did. It was funny afterwards but when it was happening it totally wasn't. WHY did it burn like that? Im talking extreme burning and we hadn't even touched each other yet
Answers:
Just be a big girl and go buy some KY jelly. This has been used for years. And try it you may like it. Don't be stuck up like some women on here. Just try it.
Because massage oil is not a lubricant. You are not meant to put it anywhere near your genitals. Btw if I were you I wouldn't cave on this issue, I found anal really painful.
Cos it's not meant for internal use.
It does matter. Massage oil is for EXTERNAL use and lube is for INTERNAL, including anal. I suggest if you seriously want to have anal with your boyfriend you two should look into buying a lube for anal sex.
But really, you shouldn't do it because he beg you. He'll get over it eventually. My boyfriend wanted anal but I repeatedly told him "no" and he no longer bothers me about it.
Edit: I just have to respond to what Gerald said. Being stuck up has nothing to do with not liking anal. It hurts. Plain and simple. It might not hurt all women, but just because some of us don't like it doesn't make us "stuck up" or prudes. And it should be the woman's choice when she she is ready to let her partner do it to her. So really, don't give into your boyfriend unless you're ready to let him do that to you. A lot of women who do anal sex start with small anal toys first before they let a guy perform it on them.