Cant stand this break up its giving me bad heartburn help?!
Question: Cant stand this break up its giving me bad heartburn help?
I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years last month and I know I did the right thing. he is not the guy for my future. he is doing everything to try to get back with me. he send me texts saying sweet things.. and it really stresses me out. He stopped a little in the passed few days but Im still extremely stressed. I get really bad heart burn . Im taking pills for it and even with the pills I can feel the burn. My neck hurts too. I dont know what to do. I wake up every morning as if I just woke up from a nightmare and all day I have a knot in my stomach. Sometime I wish I could just see him once and just hug him and Id feel better.. but that would just complicate things. I really want to move on..
I work everyday. By the time I get home Im tired. I go out to dance every friday and saturday but I stressed the rest of the week.
How do I relax? I feel sick everyday ... I dont know what to do... Any help at all is really really appreciated
I work everyday. By the time I get home Im tired. I go out to dance every friday and saturday but I stressed the rest of the week.
How do I relax? I feel sick everyday ... I dont know what to do... Any help at all is really really appreciated
Answers:
Best Answer - Chosen by Voters
You need to tell him straight up that you guys don't have a future. If he has the slightest hope, he's going to use it. You need to take his hope away. I know it sounds cruel, but this is about YOU. Also, find things he didn't do for you in the relationship. Focus on that to further convince yourself that you have no reason to get back with him. I know this is hard, but hey, life isn't always easy. Have your girlfriends over, vent, whatever to relieve the weight that's pushing you down.
I hope I helped. :). Good luck and i hope you find the right guy!